"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Clothing ...what to buy?

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Whaddup fellas...

This is my first post so I just want to say hey to everyone here. Now that the cheesy bit is done, im going shoppin in a bit to get some new shirts, either T-shirts, long sleeve tee's and maybe a button up. I should also say this, since i got to college ive put on almost 15lbs of muscle. Currently im 5'11" and about 198lbs and im lookin to keep bulking till about february so I can be as big as possible for summer. Only prob with this has been that i now only have 3 t-shirts that fit me lol.

What would be some suggestions for clothing by forum members? BTW, ive put my goals in my sig..

--DonJuan_Dnb
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get some stuff from Banana Republic or Nordstrom. Their stuff is expensive, but atleast get a shirt or two for your weekend game from them. These shirts cost more because there is more detail to them. Chicks will notice all those fancy fabrics, colors, stitching, etc., that guys don't notice. Stay away from old navy if you can, their stuff will just make you blend in with the crowd. You want to stand out from the crowd and show women you take pride in your appearance.
 
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No Nordstrom in Canada... where are you in Canada, DJD?

The more money you spend the better, obviously, but there are lots of stores with retail outlets out there.

If you're looking to attract women it might depend what kind of women you're looking for. That hipster artsy chick is really not going to be impressed with some $89 polo that you bought at Banana Republic (not that their stuff is bad it's just aimed at a preppier market).

If you have a female friend with some style, take her with you clothes shopping. This is the biggest advice I can give you, because guys are notoriously bad with finding clothes that fit.
 
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Depends on where you live and how old you are.
If you are in college, Abercrombie and Fitch and Hollister a great way to go. You want to be stylish, casual, and fun looking. Sometimes guys who are way too dressy/metro come off as weird.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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