"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Clothing ...what to buy?

DonJuan_Dnb

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Whaddup fellas...

This is my first post so I just want to say hey to everyone here. Now that the cheesy bit is done, im going shoppin in a bit to get some new shirts, either T-shirts, long sleeve tee's and maybe a button up. I should also say this, since i got to college ive put on almost 15lbs of muscle. Currently im 5'11" and about 198lbs and im lookin to keep bulking till about february so I can be as big as possible for summer. Only prob with this has been that i now only have 3 t-shirts that fit me lol.

What would be some suggestions for clothing by forum members? BTW, ive put my goals in my sig..

--DonJuan_Dnb
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace_McGregor

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Get some stuff from Banana Republic or Nordstrom. Their stuff is expensive, but atleast get a shirt or two for your weekend game from them. These shirts cost more because there is more detail to them. Chicks will notice all those fancy fabrics, colors, stitching, etc., that guys don't notice. Stay away from old navy if you can, their stuff will just make you blend in with the crowd. You want to stand out from the crowd and show women you take pride in your appearance.
 

realsmoothie

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No Nordstrom in Canada... where are you in Canada, DJD?

The more money you spend the better, obviously, but there are lots of stores with retail outlets out there.

If you're looking to attract women it might depend what kind of women you're looking for. That hipster artsy chick is really not going to be impressed with some $89 polo that you bought at Banana Republic (not that their stuff is bad it's just aimed at a preppier market).

If you have a female friend with some style, take her with you clothes shopping. This is the biggest advice I can give you, because guys are notoriously bad with finding clothes that fit.
 

BigOlePappy

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Depends on where you live and how old you are.
If you are in college, Abercrombie and Fitch and Hollister a great way to go. You want to be stylish, casual, and fun looking. Sometimes guys who are way too dressy/metro come off as weird.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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