"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blueangel83

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"you lookin for guys or what? looks like you're ready for a d1ck in your ass.


LMFAO! this guy is such a dck! :crackup:

To topic poster: wear baggy jeans with NO POCKETS.
 

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Originally posted by Zombie
He makes this thread asking for advice, and then basically tells people to fvck off he's not wearing jeans
Hmm, this coming from the man who asks how he can put on weight, is told to eat 6 meals a day, his response "I CAN'T, I'LL GET FULL + various profanities."

Fu<khead
 

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get some bright orange shirts...t shirts.. nice crisp button ups....

they will go with all colors of khakis, but would look esp slick with some black pants and black shoes

give that a try woadie
 

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its alittle far off for holloween now isn't it? Black pants and orange shirt? flock that! That just looks god aweful and people will start to think you are colored-blind
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Adone
Not necessarily. The coolest guy I know wears funny dorky undershirts and it works really good for him. You should wear what you find cool.
that's exactly the point. You have to be confident in what you're wearing.

Now I wear completely different from how I did in the past. Why? I found out what made me feel good. I like to wear clothes that give ME a sensation of power. Needless to say it worked too well :)

Find out what you dream of wearing -- do it. It's all about how you FEEL wearing what you do.
 

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Get rid of that shirt you have on under it, and wear a solid colored one (usually white).
 

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Wow, Zombie, chill the f*ck out!

I am of the opinion that, with confidence, you can rock any style of clothes. While the clothes in question are a bit out-of-date, at least he's doesn't have pocket protectors or whatever.

I think that you should get some sharp looking pants...kinda dressy, kinda casual, but they're not khakis. They're hard to describe. You can find them at Old Navy. They go really well with pretty much any collared shirt.
 

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Hmm, in my opinion he should start lifting weights and wear T-Shirts.. and jeans are good too... I don't care if you don't like theml; the ladies do!
 

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hm? I say even if you don't like jeans, its smart to stock up on a few, b/c they match with absolutely EVERYTHING. I don't see what the problem is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why don't you just take a picture of yourselves holding your favourite brand of tampon?

Give advice to this lad and keep your homo pictures to yourself.
 
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I say lose the checkered shirt as well as the black shirt with the letters. First off, it doesn't match and it looks really skanky with those wal mart half ass cargo pants.

I'm not telling you to wear jeans. Go ahead and wear khakis but go for something a little more mature. As for the shirt, the checkered shirt would go better with a grey undershirt or soemthing..Oh and a toboggan might help you out a little bit as well too.
 
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