"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blueangel83

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"you lookin for guys or what? looks like you're ready for a d1ck in your ass.


LMFAO! this guy is such a dck! :crackup:

To topic poster: wear baggy jeans with NO POCKETS.
 

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Originally posted by Zombie
He makes this thread asking for advice, and then basically tells people to fvck off he's not wearing jeans
Hmm, this coming from the man who asks how he can put on weight, is told to eat 6 meals a day, his response "I CAN'T, I'LL GET FULL + various profanities."

Fu<khead
 

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get some bright orange shirts...t shirts.. nice crisp button ups....

they will go with all colors of khakis, but would look esp slick with some black pants and black shoes

give that a try woadie
 

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its alittle far off for holloween now isn't it? Black pants and orange shirt? flock that! That just looks god aweful and people will start to think you are colored-blind
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Adone
Not necessarily. The coolest guy I know wears funny dorky undershirts and it works really good for him. You should wear what you find cool.
that's exactly the point. You have to be confident in what you're wearing.

Now I wear completely different from how I did in the past. Why? I found out what made me feel good. I like to wear clothes that give ME a sensation of power. Needless to say it worked too well :)

Find out what you dream of wearing -- do it. It's all about how you FEEL wearing what you do.
 

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Get rid of that shirt you have on under it, and wear a solid colored one (usually white).
 

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Wow, Zombie, chill the f*ck out!

I am of the opinion that, with confidence, you can rock any style of clothes. While the clothes in question are a bit out-of-date, at least he's doesn't have pocket protectors or whatever.

I think that you should get some sharp looking pants...kinda dressy, kinda casual, but they're not khakis. They're hard to describe. You can find them at Old Navy. They go really well with pretty much any collared shirt.
 

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Hmm, in my opinion he should start lifting weights and wear T-Shirts.. and jeans are good too... I don't care if you don't like theml; the ladies do!
 

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hm? I say even if you don't like jeans, its smart to stock up on a few, b/c they match with absolutely EVERYTHING. I don't see what the problem is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why don't you just take a picture of yourselves holding your favourite brand of tampon?

Give advice to this lad and keep your homo pictures to yourself.
 
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I say lose the checkered shirt as well as the black shirt with the letters. First off, it doesn't match and it looks really skanky with those wal mart half ass cargo pants.

I'm not telling you to wear jeans. Go ahead and wear khakis but go for something a little more mature. As for the shirt, the checkered shirt would go better with a grey undershirt or soemthing..Oh and a toboggan might help you out a little bit as well too.
 
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