"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Clothes Do Make The Man

AMF

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im sorry but every single garment mentioned on this thread is total WACK. The kind of thing my dad wears. Im gonna admit it: every single British person thinks there is NO SUCH THING as a fashionable American!!!! Ive never seen one. Honestly.

On the evidence of every clothing-related thread Ive read on this site, we're absolutely right :(

Dockers? As in, "im painfully middle aged"?? With shoes - actual lace up shoes??? And CHINOS? As in, "I play lawn bowls and sometimes go for walks inthe park on a sunday"??

ILL FITTING POLO SHIRTS???:eek:

Hawaiian shirts??? As in "Im fat, im balding and i hate my life... but i can still have fun... right???":eek:

CASIO watches - as in the cheap sh*tty japanese CASIO that makes calculators?? NASTY!! :eek:

What is this? A maritime enthusiast convention?????:confused:

And why do all your clothes fit so badly??? Loose pants DO NOT go with shoes... of any sort.... please....

please visit:

www.asos.com www.spunkystore.co.uk and of course www.diesel.com.... just some basic guidelines as WHAT IS ACTUALLY COOL

THANKYOU
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by AMF

www.asos.com www.spunkystore.co.uk and of course www.diesel.com.... just some basic guidelines as WHAT IS ACTUALLY COOL
I don't know if I was looking at the right sections of those first 2 sites but there sure was a lot of sleeveless shirts on them. Perfect for...what was that term I read earlier...ahh! Donut punchers :D I especially liked the style of the guy wearing a sleeveless shirt, thin black tie and a :confused: navy hat ??? (sing with me boy's "In the Navy, we can smoke lots of pole. In the navy, I can get things crammed up my hole!")

Now from experience I have found that it doesn't really matter what you wear, as long as you have a decent personality and you know your DJ abc's you will be attractive to women.
 
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