"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Clothes Do Make The Man

AMF

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im sorry but every single garment mentioned on this thread is total WACK. The kind of thing my dad wears. Im gonna admit it: every single British person thinks there is NO SUCH THING as a fashionable American!!!! Ive never seen one. Honestly.

On the evidence of every clothing-related thread Ive read on this site, we're absolutely right :(

Dockers? As in, "im painfully middle aged"?? With shoes - actual lace up shoes??? And CHINOS? As in, "I play lawn bowls and sometimes go for walks inthe park on a sunday"??

ILL FITTING POLO SHIRTS???:eek:

Hawaiian shirts??? As in "Im fat, im balding and i hate my life... but i can still have fun... right???":eek:

CASIO watches - as in the cheap sh*tty japanese CASIO that makes calculators?? NASTY!! :eek:

What is this? A maritime enthusiast convention?????:confused:

And why do all your clothes fit so badly??? Loose pants DO NOT go with shoes... of any sort.... please....

please visit:

www.asos.com www.spunkystore.co.uk and of course www.diesel.com.... just some basic guidelines as WHAT IS ACTUALLY COOL

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by AMF

www.asos.com www.spunkystore.co.uk and of course www.diesel.com.... just some basic guidelines as WHAT IS ACTUALLY COOL
I don't know if I was looking at the right sections of those first 2 sites but there sure was a lot of sleeveless shirts on them. Perfect for...what was that term I read earlier...ahh! Donut punchers :D I especially liked the style of the guy wearing a sleeveless shirt, thin black tie and a :confused: navy hat ??? (sing with me boy's "In the Navy, we can smoke lots of pole. In the navy, I can get things crammed up my hole!")

Now from experience I have found that it doesn't really matter what you wear, as long as you have a decent personality and you know your DJ abc's you will be attractive to women.
 
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