"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Closing the deal in college

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So im in college and party weekends etc. My issue isnt with talking to people or girls as this is no problem, its closing the deal.

Im having trouble isolating the girl and even then ive only gotten to kissing nothing more. Honestly i think part of it is a problem with hesitation with myself(social standards etc) What do u experienced college fellows use technique wise to get the *****?

Another issue is i get interest from women np but honestly im clueless even with how to get them over to my place to study or w/e. I get their numbers and then never call lol. ive got a full schedule (focused on getting into University of Washington for architectural school) so half the time i honestly cant be ****ed to bother with *****es.

Lately ive been more focused on classes and just being a smartass/social in class ive noticed increased attention from the females nearby(girl with her bf in the same class in my drawing class started always putting her bench next to mine) to name an example.

So id like some pointers on closing techniques or how i can just not give a **** straight up so ill stay outta my own head :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Borknagar

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If you've established a connection to where you're at least comfortable talk to them, ask them if they would like to come over and play mortal kombat and you'll bet you can kick their butt, and the winner gets to take a shot every time they win!

They'll laugh, and be like what the heck? but hey you're just being silly. Women like a random sense of humor! Or ask them if they wanna get drunk and wrestle, and see their response, what do you have to loose? If they're not interested, they'll look at you like you're a creep and say no, but who cares, next em.


Honestly, if a women is into you, she won't care what your goofy assed excuse is to get her over, she'll just laugh and be ok cool lets do this!
 

Kenny Powers

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hahaha i literally just posted a similar thread a second ago. I'm having the exact same problem, college should be so much easier. Let me know if you find anything that works.
 

john_trenor

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In college girls don’t want to be isolated they want to be noticed, and other guys want to be noticed by them. When in a bar or a party just talk louder than every guy in proximity, when you talk to a girl just say things that don’t make sense, this will confuse her more than she already was. Watching an episode of mating walrus rituals on the animal planet before your next outing will definitely prepare you for this mission. Be aware that this method only works in college, and in the zoo, don't try to use it once you finish school.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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