"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Closing the deal in college

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So im in college and party weekends etc. My issue isnt with talking to people or girls as this is no problem, its closing the deal.

Im having trouble isolating the girl and even then ive only gotten to kissing nothing more. Honestly i think part of it is a problem with hesitation with myself(social standards etc) What do u experienced college fellows use technique wise to get the *****?

Another issue is i get interest from women np but honestly im clueless even with how to get them over to my place to study or w/e. I get their numbers and then never call lol. ive got a full schedule (focused on getting into University of Washington for architectural school) so half the time i honestly cant be ****ed to bother with *****es.

Lately ive been more focused on classes and just being a smartass/social in class ive noticed increased attention from the females nearby(girl with her bf in the same class in my drawing class started always putting her bench next to mine) to name an example.

So id like some pointers on closing techniques or how i can just not give a **** straight up so ill stay outta my own head :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Borknagar

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If you've established a connection to where you're at least comfortable talk to them, ask them if they would like to come over and play mortal kombat and you'll bet you can kick their butt, and the winner gets to take a shot every time they win!

They'll laugh, and be like what the heck? but hey you're just being silly. Women like a random sense of humor! Or ask them if they wanna get drunk and wrestle, and see their response, what do you have to loose? If they're not interested, they'll look at you like you're a creep and say no, but who cares, next em.


Honestly, if a women is into you, she won't care what your goofy assed excuse is to get her over, she'll just laugh and be ok cool lets do this!
 

Kenny Powers

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hahaha i literally just posted a similar thread a second ago. I'm having the exact same problem, college should be so much easier. Let me know if you find anything that works.
 

john_trenor

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In college girls don’t want to be isolated they want to be noticed, and other guys want to be noticed by them. When in a bar or a party just talk louder than every guy in proximity, when you talk to a girl just say things that don’t make sense, this will confuse her more than she already was. Watching an episode of mating walrus rituals on the animal planet before your next outing will definitely prepare you for this mission. Be aware that this method only works in college, and in the zoo, don't try to use it once you finish school.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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