"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Closing the deal in college

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So im in college and party weekends etc. My issue isnt with talking to people or girls as this is no problem, its closing the deal.

Im having trouble isolating the girl and even then ive only gotten to kissing nothing more. Honestly i think part of it is a problem with hesitation with myself(social standards etc) What do u experienced college fellows use technique wise to get the *****?

Another issue is i get interest from women np but honestly im clueless even with how to get them over to my place to study or w/e. I get their numbers and then never call lol. ive got a full schedule (focused on getting into University of Washington for architectural school) so half the time i honestly cant be ****ed to bother with *****es.

Lately ive been more focused on classes and just being a smartass/social in class ive noticed increased attention from the females nearby(girl with her bf in the same class in my drawing class started always putting her bench next to mine) to name an example.

So id like some pointers on closing techniques or how i can just not give a **** straight up so ill stay outta my own head :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Borknagar

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If you've established a connection to where you're at least comfortable talk to them, ask them if they would like to come over and play mortal kombat and you'll bet you can kick their butt, and the winner gets to take a shot every time they win!

They'll laugh, and be like what the heck? but hey you're just being silly. Women like a random sense of humor! Or ask them if they wanna get drunk and wrestle, and see their response, what do you have to loose? If they're not interested, they'll look at you like you're a creep and say no, but who cares, next em.


Honestly, if a women is into you, she won't care what your goofy assed excuse is to get her over, she'll just laugh and be ok cool lets do this!
 

Kenny Powers

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hahaha i literally just posted a similar thread a second ago. I'm having the exact same problem, college should be so much easier. Let me know if you find anything that works.
 

john_trenor

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In college girls don’t want to be isolated they want to be noticed, and other guys want to be noticed by them. When in a bar or a party just talk louder than every guy in proximity, when you talk to a girl just say things that don’t make sense, this will confuse her more than she already was. Watching an episode of mating walrus rituals on the animal planet before your next outing will definitely prepare you for this mission. Be aware that this method only works in college, and in the zoo, don't try to use it once you finish school.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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