# closing a chick who's probably heard every stupid ass line ever. Help!

[cactus3178]

Okay, I've hit a nice hard brick wall: I want to hook up with a chick who's somewhat famous in my town. Nothing crazy, but she is on www.suicidegirls.com....no, I'm not telling you which one

Anyhow, she quit the site, and I emailed her to find out why....long story short - we chatted a bit and bullsh*tted back and forth a couple times...she told she quit because she's got some cool things going on in her life (college, etc) and that she doesn't have the need or want to do the site anymore. I told her I live in Portland too and she told me to come down to her work (a bar/music venue downtown where she is a ****tail waitress) and grabs some beers on Sunday.

She didn't tell me why to come down, for all I know she's just plugging her venue, I don't really know if it was a 'personal' invite.....but I want to hook up with this chick.

I'm sure this girl has been gamed on every possible way, heard every BS line, etc......and I'm not sure about a # close. Hell, I don't even know if she has a BF, it's a total long shot, but I know if I don't try, I'll regret not knowing.


Sh*t. I do believe she's the first girl I've been intimidated by since I started this DJ thing.

Someone please slap me good and hard if this doesn't sound right....I look at this chick and about start drooling. I don't want a relationship out of this at all, but oh, the fun I could have with this girl.

 

[DJ Mission]

Just whip it out man.

 

[cactus3178]

Right there in the bar?

 

[Bussey]

I think it would help us all make better advice if you told us which one it is.

Make sure you tease her about being a "Suicide Girl"... if... you ... can tease... about.... suicide...

Yes...

*Steps away quietly.*

 

[cactus3178]

^ can't really do that....let's just say she's definitely a 8.5+ in anyones book.

 

[MindOverMatter]

how about this, don't use a line, keep it natural and just be a fun guy to be around??

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
how about this, don't use a line, keep it natural and just be a fun guy to be around??

I agree however I wouldn't try anything until you stop being intimidated by her. Intimidation is a symptom of an AFC. Once you realize that she has titz n'@zz like every other woman you'll be alright.

Once that happens saying something like "You're pretty cool, we should do something together," will seem simple as h3ll.

 

[RiceHapa888]

hmm what bar she work at? anyways you should try to put her back in the category of ordinary girl- shes just the same as any other HB. Don't be spitting out lines, just be your C+F self- believe in what you are bringing to the table and see whether after spending some time with her that she still stays as a acceptable girl in your mind...if you don't like who she is then just bow out knowing it wouldnt have worked...why she invite you down? think that she wants to see you- you've done well and shes curious- think back to past successes remember what a DJ you are- refresh your memory and push ahead..confidence.

 

[cactus3178]

RiceHapa,


Hey, what's up dude? She works at Dante's, 3d and Burnside. Pretty cool place...if you've never been there before, you should check it out.....tons of HB's every time I've been there (check out http://www.danteslive.com/calendar.html). I'm not sure why she invited me down....could be just being friendly for all I know.

Yeah, I never use 'lines', I think they're stupid....I just mean that I'm sure she's heard just about everything. Ugh.


Francisco d'Anconia,


I see your point.

***

You know what though, f*ck it. It's not like there's not a million other HB's out there in this town....nothing ventured, nothing gained. being rejected is 10x better than not knowing what could have been.


Thanks all for the advice.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by cactus3178
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You know what though, f*ck it. It's not like there's not a million other HB's out there in this town....nothing ventured, nothing gained. being rejected is 10x better than not knowing what could have been. ..

True marks of a DJ....

 

[B9]

what I find curious about this logic is that it presupposes that these hot women DON'T get laid, because they've heard it all and apparently reject it all by now.

Your job is not to be some kind of grand innovative master DJ with all the right lines to wheel home the catch. It is just to be appealing to her. If she finds you attractive in any way, then that shouldn't be too difficult as long as your social skills are decent. She'll meet you on the halfway from there, provided she has interest in you. if not, then I doubt some smart pickup line is gonna change that.