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DonJuanNJ81 said:End result?
I offed her today.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonJuanNJ81 said:End result?
I offed her today.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
woods said:I still have a huge bottle of Trazadone. It worked great for me as a sleeping aid. I could take a quarter of one and go right to sleep, even under hard stress. Im naturally an insomniac. I dont take them anymore, unless I have to get up super early, cuz cant sleep before 11:00 usually. Some people I know say it made them wired, though. No complaints from me though.
How long have you been taking benzos?? Try going cold turkey off them for 2 weeks and then come say they are not addictive.STR8UP said:And the alternative is a strong SSRI???
Benzos get a bad rap. I take Clonazepam. In all fairness, the SSRI's did help me with some social anxiety issues. I'll give 'em that. But the side effects....yikes.....
Highly addictive? That's debateble. The anti-benzo crowd would like for you to believe that. But I can tell you from personal experience that taken in moderation they likely aren't as addictive as coffee.
I take it maybe 5 times per week, mainly to help me sleep. They are SUPER cheap and have provided benefits that FAR outweigh any drawbacks (for me there are none).
That said......if someone pops them like tic-tacs they probably need to be taken away from them, just like with any drug.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They are mainly used for anxiety and stress but they should never be prescribed for more than 2 weeks because after that you're hooked.Luveno said:I really don't get all this benzo defense.
They are exceptionally useful drugs for getting people out of seizures!
However, for simple things like sleep and relaxation, there are so many other better drugs or non-pharmacologic therapies.
As for whether I take or have taken benzos, the answer is no; I know what they can do to people if taken for an extended period of time.
Best thing to do if you want to sleep better is to go to the gym and eat healthily! Of course, this takes a lot of effort so people don't do it - everyone wants an insta-cure!
I have been on Clonozepam for a couple of years.My Name is Nobody said:How long have you been taking them? Try going cold turkey off them for 2 weeks, I bet you can't do it.
You guys REALLY have no idea what you are talking about.My Name is Nobody said:They are mainly used for anxiety and stress but they should never be prescribed for more than 2 weeks because after that you're hooked.
No, you have no clue. You fell for the same brainwashing that a lot of people have.Luveno said:As for whether I take or have taken benzos, the answer is no; I know what they can do to people if taken for an extended period of time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
STR8UP said:You guys REALLY have no idea what you are talking about.
I haven't, and I likely won't for awhile. It helps me live a happier and more fulfilling life and allows me to get the proper amount of rest. I don't take it every day but I have no reason to stop taking it altogether.My Name is Nobody said:When is the last time you didn't take a benzo for 2 weeks?
I've taken that drug. My personal opinion, and that's all it is is a personal opinion, is that if you stop taking it and you don't feel any ill effects, it wasn't doing anything for you in the first place.STR8UP said:I haven't, and I likely won't for awhile. It helps me live a happier and more fulfilling life and allows me to get the proper amount of rest. I don't take it every day but I have no reason to stop taking it altogether.
If I don't take it for a few days at a time I have absolutely no craving for it. I'm no MD but if you're addicted to something I don't think you have to wait two weeks to get withdrawal symptoms.
I just have to laugh at people who have never taken the drug giving advice about the dangers of addiction. I've taken hydrocodone before. Now THAT is a drug that I can see the potential to become addicted to. Clonozepam....not so much so.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.