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DonJuanNJ81 said:End result?
I offed her today.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DonJuanNJ81 said:End result?
I offed her today.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
woods said:I still have a huge bottle of Trazadone. It worked great for me as a sleeping aid. I could take a quarter of one and go right to sleep, even under hard stress. Im naturally an insomniac. I dont take them anymore, unless I have to get up super early, cuz cant sleep before 11:00 usually. Some people I know say it made them wired, though. No complaints from me though.
How long have you been taking benzos?? Try going cold turkey off them for 2 weeks and then come say they are not addictive.STR8UP said:And the alternative is a strong SSRI???
Benzos get a bad rap. I take Clonazepam. In all fairness, the SSRI's did help me with some social anxiety issues. I'll give 'em that. But the side effects....yikes.....
Highly addictive? That's debateble. The anti-benzo crowd would like for you to believe that. But I can tell you from personal experience that taken in moderation they likely aren't as addictive as coffee.
I take it maybe 5 times per week, mainly to help me sleep. They are SUPER cheap and have provided benefits that FAR outweigh any drawbacks (for me there are none).
That said......if someone pops them like tic-tacs they probably need to be taken away from them, just like with any drug.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
They are mainly used for anxiety and stress but they should never be prescribed for more than 2 weeks because after that you're hooked.Luveno said:I really don't get all this benzo defense.
They are exceptionally useful drugs for getting people out of seizures!
However, for simple things like sleep and relaxation, there are so many other better drugs or non-pharmacologic therapies.
As for whether I take or have taken benzos, the answer is no; I know what they can do to people if taken for an extended period of time.
Best thing to do if you want to sleep better is to go to the gym and eat healthily! Of course, this takes a lot of effort so people don't do it - everyone wants an insta-cure!
I have been on Clonozepam for a couple of years.My Name is Nobody said:How long have you been taking them? Try going cold turkey off them for 2 weeks, I bet you can't do it.
You guys REALLY have no idea what you are talking about.My Name is Nobody said:They are mainly used for anxiety and stress but they should never be prescribed for more than 2 weeks because after that you're hooked.
No, you have no clue. You fell for the same brainwashing that a lot of people have.Luveno said:As for whether I take or have taken benzos, the answer is no; I know what they can do to people if taken for an extended period of time.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
STR8UP said:You guys REALLY have no idea what you are talking about.
I haven't, and I likely won't for awhile. It helps me live a happier and more fulfilling life and allows me to get the proper amount of rest. I don't take it every day but I have no reason to stop taking it altogether.My Name is Nobody said:When is the last time you didn't take a benzo for 2 weeks?
I've taken that drug. My personal opinion, and that's all it is is a personal opinion, is that if you stop taking it and you don't feel any ill effects, it wasn't doing anything for you in the first place.STR8UP said:I haven't, and I likely won't for awhile. It helps me live a happier and more fulfilling life and allows me to get the proper amount of rest. I don't take it every day but I have no reason to stop taking it altogether.
If I don't take it for a few days at a time I have absolutely no craving for it. I'm no MD but if you're addicted to something I don't think you have to wait two weeks to get withdrawal symptoms.
I just have to laugh at people who have never taken the drug giving advice about the dangers of addiction. I've taken hydrocodone before. Now THAT is a drug that I can see the potential to become addicted to. Clonozepam....not so much so.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.