Aesthetix29
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What do women prefer?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Clean shaven VS Beard's
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
nmartinez12443
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Studies have shown that 90 % of women prefer either clean shaven 50 % of that 90 or a little stubble the other 40%.
The reality is it depends on your face and age. I think as you get older clean shaven is better because it makes you look younger.
The reality is it depends on your face and age. I think as you get older clean shaven is better because it makes you look younger.
icantgetlaid
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Some guys don't grow beards, they get patchy pube face ... in these cases = clean shaven.
Otherwise - a neatly groomed *full* beard has to make one stand out among his peers as more masculine. And that can't hurt with the ladies.
Otherwise - a neatly groomed *full* beard has to make one stand out among his peers as more masculine. And that can't hurt with the ladies.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SeymourCake
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I'm growing out my beard. I don't give a fvck if people like it or not, or if people make snarky comments how I look Muslim/Terrorist. I like the way it looks.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
I got a chinstrap and a mustache it's a bit different depending on race. (I'm black) It also matters the structure of your face. I have a strong jawline & chin. My facial hair highlights that, so I keep it.
If you have a weak chin grow out your beard, if you jaws okay you can go either way. All the studies I've seen said clean shaven, but those must be dated cause what's "in" right now is a well kept full beard, and a decent length of hair.
If you have a weak chin grow out your beard, if you jaws okay you can go either way. All the studies I've seen said clean shaven, but those must be dated cause what's "in" right now is a well kept full beard, and a decent length of hair.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
im fortunate enough to be able grow whatever facial hair i want
full beard , a light stubble , heavy stubble ive experimented with them all and im pretty young ( early 20's)
a full beard made me look older and rougher and some chicks soaked themselves over it .....but the general consensus was it was too much
a clean shave for me makes me look slighty more handsome but far too young to be hitting the type of women i want
i now constantly sport about a grade 2 all over stubble sometimes letting it grow a little longer / shorter depending on mood when im tanned this looks sick and i rarely have any trouble getting a chicks eye
full beard , a light stubble , heavy stubble ive experimented with them all and im pretty young ( early 20's)
a full beard made me look older and rougher and some chicks soaked themselves over it .....but the general consensus was it was too much
a clean shave for me makes me look slighty more handsome but far too young to be hitting the type of women i want
i now constantly sport about a grade 2 all over stubble sometimes letting it grow a little longer / shorter depending on mood when im tanned this looks sick and i rarely have any trouble getting a chicks eye
BrainDamage92
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I never am truely clean shaved couse I only cut my beard with an electric hair cutter, so I always have at least a shadow.
It doesnt really make any difference. They like me anyway. The thing that makes a difference is young girls like a guy who looks like hes about to kill somebody, while older women like guys who are smiling more so its in the facial expressions rather than the hair.
It doesnt really make any difference. They like me anyway. The thing that makes a difference is young girls like a guy who looks like hes about to kill somebody, while older women like guys who are smiling more so its in the facial expressions rather than the hair.
archon8692
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I think it depends on the guys jawline. If you have a bad jawline, grow a beard.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
Do whatever makes you feel comfortable....very very simple
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yeah man it depends on the woman. some women dig beards n some dont. do wut u like n forget bout the women n wut they like cuz if u look good bro aint no chick gonna pass on u if u gots a beard or is clean shaven.