"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Clean shaven VS Beard's

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nmartinez12443

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Studies have shown that 90 % of women prefer either clean shaven 50 % of that 90 or a little stubble the other 40%.

The reality is it depends on your face and age. I think as you get older clean shaven is better because it makes you look younger.
 

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nmartinez12443 said:
Studies have shown that 90 % of women prefer either clean shaven 50 % of that 90 or a little stubble the other 40%.

The reality is it depends on your face and age. I think as you get older clean shaven is better because it makes you look younger.
What studies? Time and time again, heavy stubble has been shown to be the number one choice.
 

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Some guys don't grow beards, they get patchy pube face ... in these cases = clean shaven.

Otherwise - a neatly groomed *full* beard has to make one stand out among his peers as more masculine. And that can't hurt with the ladies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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If it's patchy, clean shaven.

If it's full beard, neatly trimmed and well kept.
 

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I'm growing out my beard. I don't give a fvck if people like it or not, or if people make snarky comments how I look Muslim/Terrorist. I like the way it looks.
 

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If your beard doesn't look like pubes, do it. But this whole "I have my original facial hairs" look is disgusting IMO (famous in Austin). Most women prefer 3 days growth.
 

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I got a chinstrap and a mustache it's a bit different depending on race. (I'm black) It also matters the structure of your face. I have a strong jawline & chin. My facial hair highlights that, so I keep it.

If you have a weak chin grow out your beard, if you jaws okay you can go either way. All the studies I've seen said clean shaven, but those must be dated cause what's "in" right now is a well kept full beard, and a decent length of hair.
 

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Grass doesn't grow on a busy street. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bingo-Player

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im fortunate enough to be able grow whatever facial hair i want

full beard , a light stubble , heavy stubble ive experimented with them all and im pretty young ( early 20's)

a full beard made me look older and rougher and some chicks soaked themselves over it .....but the general consensus was it was too much

a clean shave for me makes me look slighty more handsome but far too young to be hitting the type of women i want

i now constantly sport about a grade 2 all over stubble sometimes letting it grow a little longer / shorter depending on mood when im tanned this looks sick and i rarely have any trouble getting a chicks eye
 

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I never am truely clean shaved couse I only cut my beard with an electric hair cutter, so I always have at least a shadow.


It doesnt really make any difference. They like me anyway. The thing that makes a difference is young girls like a guy who looks like hes about to kill somebody, while older women like guys who are smiling more so its in the facial expressions rather than the hair.
 

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No patches here...I've had a full five o'clock shadow since I'm 15. I shave on my work days. Otherwise I sport a 2-3 day stubble. It looks awesome and I've been complimented on it countless times.
 

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I think it depends on the guys jawline. If you have a bad jawline, grow a beard.
 

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Do whatever makes you feel comfortable....very very simple
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah man it depends on the woman. some women dig beards n some dont. do wut u like n forget bout the women n wut they like cuz if u look good bro aint no chick gonna pass on u if u gots a beard or is clean shaven.
 

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backbeat said:
yeah man it depends on the woman. some women dig beards n some dont. do wut u like n forget bout the women n wut they like cuz if u look good bro aint no chick gonna pass on u if u gots a beard or is clean shaven.
r u 12?

For the love of God stop texting SS.
 

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Depends on the women, however, from what I've observed with men who are in relationships with very attractive women, beards are preferred. You will give out a more masculine vibe.
 
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