Aesthetix29
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What do women prefer?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Clean shaven VS Beard's
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
nmartinez12443
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Studies have shown that 90 % of women prefer either clean shaven 50 % of that 90 or a little stubble the other 40%.
The reality is it depends on your face and age. I think as you get older clean shaven is better because it makes you look younger.
The reality is it depends on your face and age. I think as you get older clean shaven is better because it makes you look younger.
icantgetlaid
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Some guys don't grow beards, they get patchy pube face ... in these cases = clean shaven.
Otherwise - a neatly groomed *full* beard has to make one stand out among his peers as more masculine. And that can't hurt with the ladies.
Otherwise - a neatly groomed *full* beard has to make one stand out among his peers as more masculine. And that can't hurt with the ladies.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SeymourCake
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I'm growing out my beard. I don't give a fvck if people like it or not, or if people make snarky comments how I look Muslim/Terrorist. I like the way it looks.
SmooveMooves
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I got a chinstrap and a mustache it's a bit different depending on race. (I'm black) It also matters the structure of your face. I have a strong jawline & chin. My facial hair highlights that, so I keep it.
If you have a weak chin grow out your beard, if you jaws okay you can go either way. All the studies I've seen said clean shaven, but those must be dated cause what's "in" right now is a well kept full beard, and a decent length of hair.
If you have a weak chin grow out your beard, if you jaws okay you can go either way. All the studies I've seen said clean shaven, but those must be dated cause what's "in" right now is a well kept full beard, and a decent length of hair.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bingo-Player
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im fortunate enough to be able grow whatever facial hair i want
full beard , a light stubble , heavy stubble ive experimented with them all and im pretty young ( early 20's)
a full beard made me look older and rougher and some chicks soaked themselves over it .....but the general consensus was it was too much
a clean shave for me makes me look slighty more handsome but far too young to be hitting the type of women i want
i now constantly sport about a grade 2 all over stubble sometimes letting it grow a little longer / shorter depending on mood when im tanned this looks sick and i rarely have any trouble getting a chicks eye
full beard , a light stubble , heavy stubble ive experimented with them all and im pretty young ( early 20's)
a full beard made me look older and rougher and some chicks soaked themselves over it .....but the general consensus was it was too much
a clean shave for me makes me look slighty more handsome but far too young to be hitting the type of women i want
i now constantly sport about a grade 2 all over stubble sometimes letting it grow a little longer / shorter depending on mood when im tanned this looks sick and i rarely have any trouble getting a chicks eye
BrainDamage92
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I never am truely clean shaved couse I only cut my beard with an electric hair cutter, so I always have at least a shadow.
It doesnt really make any difference. They like me anyway. The thing that makes a difference is young girls like a guy who looks like hes about to kill somebody, while older women like guys who are smiling more so its in the facial expressions rather than the hair.
It doesnt really make any difference. They like me anyway. The thing that makes a difference is young girls like a guy who looks like hes about to kill somebody, while older women like guys who are smiling more so its in the facial expressions rather than the hair.
archon8692
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I think it depends on the guys jawline. If you have a bad jawline, grow a beard.
old_skoolr
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Do whatever makes you feel comfortable....very very simple
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yeah man it depends on the woman. some women dig beards n some dont. do wut u like n forget bout the women n wut they like cuz if u look good bro aint no chick gonna pass on u if u gots a beard or is clean shaven.