"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Classy Girl vs. Sex Pot

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toddlips said:
This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
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Why are you asking us? Is it going to change your mind who you pick?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuan11 said:
Why are you asking us? Is it going to change your mind who you pick?
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Because I continually find myself stressing over what girl makes a better match for me. I just thought I would throw it out there and see what my sosuave bros have to say about it.
 
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I would have to say I would want a girl that was both. These are the girls I call closet freaks. They require a little work to break down the barriers but once you do you have unleashed a monster. You can take them anywhere and not worry but once you get them behind close doors.:moon:
 
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EWJ said:
I would have to say I would want a girl that was both. These are the girls I call closet freaks. They require a little work to break down the barriers but once you do you have unleashed a monster. You can take them anywhere and not worry but once you get them behind close doors.:moon:
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Of course that is ideal, but it is REALLY hard to determine which girl will end up that way on a cold approach. You know, bro?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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