Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Classy Girl vs. Sex Pot

DonJuan11

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toddlips said:
This one is always been tough for me to decide on. An attractive, classy girl who will represent you well when you are together versus the super-hot girl who oozes sexuality. I've been with both for the most part and it doesn't make this any easier to decide on.

Perhaps this is better communicated with an example using celebs. Would you rather be with a girl like Natalie Portman, who is classy and smart, or Jessica Alba or Jessica Biel - women who just run wild with sexual vibes?
Why are you asking us? Is it going to change your mind who you pick?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuan11 said:
Why are you asking us? Is it going to change your mind who you pick?
Because I continually find myself stressing over what girl makes a better match for me. I just thought I would throw it out there and see what my sosuave bros have to say about it.
 

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I would have to say I would want a girl that was both. These are the girls I call closet freaks. They require a little work to break down the barriers but once you do you have unleashed a monster. You can take them anywhere and not worry but once you get them behind close doors.:moon:
 

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EWJ said:
I would have to say I would want a girl that was both. These are the girls I call closet freaks. They require a little work to break down the barriers but once you do you have unleashed a monster. You can take them anywhere and not worry but once you get them behind close doors.:moon:
Of course that is ideal, but it is REALLY hard to determine which girl will end up that way on a cold approach. You know, bro?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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