She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Everyone hear is always crying about the Beta males and ragging on the Beta males. Maybe they should be putting down the Gammas and Omegas instead. The Betas don't actually have it all that bad.It goes like this, in order from most valued to least valued:
Alpha
Beta
Gamma
Omega
zekko said:Everyone hear is always crying about the Beta males and ragging on the Beta males. Maybe they should be putting down the Gammas and Omegas instead. The Betas don't actually have it all that bad.
I'm sure 90% (or more) of the guys on this forum claiming to be Alphas are actually Betas.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You're at least mostly right, of course.I like to see who on this forum is claiming that they are alpha. Because I would laugh my head off at him. There are no alphas here.
Warrior74 said:I like to see who on this forum is claiming that they are alpha. Because I would laugh my head off at him. There are no alphas here. Some greater betas as roissy puts it, but that's about it. Every man would love to think he is some supreme DJ or some bad ass Alpha...but they are not or they wouldn't be here. You think an alpha gives a sh1t about helping other guys get chics? Hell no. More for him, hope you die beta boy. LOL.
J. Darko said:You're wrong. There are only two types of man. Those who get the girls, and those who discuss theories on internet forums.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I believe in the 80-20 rule...so alphas are uncommon, but not rare. There are a few alphas in just about every locale, scoring with loads of women or leading social circles.starplayer said:Spot on.
I know this may hurt some guys' egos, but it's the truth. None of us are real alphas here.
Maybe some here are more alpha than others and might even be quite successful with women. I expect we all have alpha moments. I even believe some of us will become REAL alphas one day and leave this forum for good.
But most of us are betas just trying to make it in this world (along with 90+ % of guys who you see in the world around you). REAL alphas are rare and the last thing on their mind is visiting this forum.
By the way this is the stupidest **** I ever read. I belive in what senor fingers said a man is a man no more no less. You define yourself I'm not an alpha and would never claimed to be, I'm more like a pimp. My point is define yourself.Plinco said:I should clarify on what is an Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Omega.
An Alpha is different, and I don't mean different as in wearing pink shoes, but as in different from the general public as to be a famous actor or something like that. Alpha males consists no more than one to five percent of the population, depending on how you really want to define it. Beta males are the ones that go the "way" as Pook would put it. They are the ones who strut around thinking that they are bad@ss, talking about football, weigh +185 pounds, etc. They can also be "trendy." They comprise about 20% of the population. Gamma males are like Beta males, only somewhat inferior. They try to conform, but going the "way" does not quite work out for them as well. They are like beta males only less confident and are weaker. They consist of about 70% of the population. The Omega males are seen as leftover scrapes by women because they are different in the sense that they do not go the "way" and are seen as weak or even too weak to even conform. Women do not like them quite as much because they are not manipulated for as much money, nor are they seen with status or strength because the Omega male is living in another world so to speak. They are often nerds or other overly serious dude concentrating seemingly too much on something.
Here are some broad examples:
The Alpha male is either rockstar or a prisoner.
The Beta male is the provider that makes bank and weighs 185 pounds or more, and thinks he is Alpha.
The Gamma male is the provider that is frugal, physically smaller, and thinks he is Beta.
The Omega male is the weird nerd guy that nobody really respects and does not socialize with people well. Who know what Omegas think of themselves.
I would not be surprised if many on this forum are actually Omegas.
Here is the thing though, the only difference between the Omega male and the Alpha male is the amount of strength. So, take for instance, a Bill Gates or Napoleon Bonaparte who started Omega and went straight to Alpha.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There could be a million reasons why an alpha wants to help other guys. Amusement, satisfy ego etc...Warrior74 said:I like to see who on this forum is claiming that they are alpha. Because I would laugh my head off at him. There are no alphas here. Some greater betas as roissy puts it, but that's about it. Every man would love to think he is some supreme DJ or some bad ass Alpha...but they are not or they wouldn't be here. You think an alpha gives a sh1t about helping other guys get chics? Hell no. More for him, hope you die beta boy. LOL.
It sounds like you care and not care at the same time. If this topic does not help you, then why does it concern you?ArcBound said:the reason why I get annoyed not really angry at that is because yes I am tired of hearing about alphas vs betas. And second by that definition of alpha male, i'm not one cause I am not always the top guy or always at the center of attention. but i still get women and i still enjoy my life. but then some douche on the internet will post calling me or my actions beta or alpha and a million guys will follow saying oh yeah he's right you're beta, you gotta be more alpha. Fvck all of that, do what you what to do, wear what you want to wear (even if it is skinny jeans), listen to what music you want to listen too (even if people call it AFC), sosuave has good tips but I think people here take too seriously what online people tell them.
I guess this does not concern you either.Chosen1 said:By the way this is the stupidest **** I ever read. I belive in what senor fingers said a man is a man no more no less. You define yourself I'm not an alpha and would never claimed to be, I'm more like a pimp. My point is define yourself.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.