GaryUranga
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post "openers" for when youre in some class at college, other than "hi my names JC" lets see some humour, Im trying to find my standard class opener
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
I think in class non-verbal openers would work the best - less time, less noise, max attraction. For example - gesture her to wipe something off her face. Smile and continue C&F, introduce yourself etc.GaryUranga said:
As for verbal openers, i'd suggest you do not go situational, its pretty AFC imo. Try this - "can i ask you a question? do you always dress up so much to come to class?" - say it with a smile.. If she IS dressed up, its a nice neg, otherwise it's simply funny
You can also open with a backhanded compliment - "can i ask you something, where did you get that shirt (or whatever) from? I saw a girl wearing the same thing before coming to class. Looks really nice though!"
Curiosity Openers - Ask her something about what she is wearing or possesses or is doing, in a genuine tone of curiosity. Just smile and continue.
Introductory openers:
Try to get into a conversation with some buddies (standing near her), and open her over shoulder - with a smile - "So, who are you?"
She'll say - "I'm blah blah" - You say - "And.. that's special because? "GaryUranga
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nice Ill try those, today Im in the bus and talkign to 2 girls and theyre infront of me and really into talkign to me, next to me is a hottie, I ask the 2 girls in front of me (who I met a couple of days ago) "so what looks better on me short hair or long hair?" they were into it, then I randomly open the hottie next to me "so what looks better on me short hair or long hair?" it went ok, she got off the bus liek 30 secs after I shoulda done it before
daygameguy
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yes, i think you get the idea.GaryUranga said:
It'll look like you have social value, even though you may be talking to all guys, but if you turn over shoulder and open, you display that you are the leader of that group. Its very powerful.
What you say is also important though, along with how you say it ^^.
So, try to not be too ****y - what looks better on me - is kind of too ****y imo. Just smile and ask a general open ended question, or just ask who she is.
You could try this go up to a girl you really interested in class and be like "Hey you look really fimilliar, what high school did you go to?" or be like "Hey, aren't you dating steve?" This is what I like to call my honest mistake opener, you mistaken her for some one else and she won't feel threatned by it. The first one is great because she can tell you what school she went to and you can play it off like you thought it was a girl you knew back in highschool, but now like I said you know what school she went to, you can than ask her how it was going to that school, or make up some other lines invovling that school, do what it takes to open her up. The second approach using this method is great as well because you can find out if she is single or not, she will either tell you she is not dating anyone, or thats not her boyfriends name. You could do a lot with that as well, if shes not dating anyone than that just saved you a lot of wondering and now you can try some other techniques. If she does have a boyfriend than you can either jump ship or continue and try to get a number or something out of her depending on your skill. I hope that was helpful.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
I've been trying this opener lately, and it works well, if delivered with confidence and belief...
"Hey, I need a female opinion on something... I don't know if you can help me, but do you think its ok to break up with your gf over the phone"
HER: blah blah
"OK. I like your outlook. My friends say send her a text message lol."
HER: blah blah
"The thing is, I'm just trying to avoid telling her in person cuz she's really sensitive.. i don't know if she'll start crying or jump on me and kill me lol"
HER: smile or blah blah
"I'm .... btw, what's your name?" - Boom. #close imminent.
"Hey, I need a female opinion on something... I don't know if you can help me, but do you think its ok to break up with your gf over the phone"
HER: blah blah
"OK. I like your outlook. My friends say send her a text message lol."
HER: blah blah
"The thing is, I'm just trying to avoid telling her in person cuz she's really sensitive.. i don't know if she'll start crying or jump on me and kill me lol"
HER: smile or blah blah
"I'm .... btw, what's your name?" - Boom. #close imminent.
GaryUranga
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nice I shall try those, thanks guys, keep them coming the more the merrier
Arizona iced tea
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daygameguy, you seem to really know what you are doing
today i met a hb8 with just saying
me: hi, my name is ****.
HB: hi im ****
and she had a heavy east european accent so i asked where she was from... and we talked for about an hour between classes. i admit it isnt the fanciest opener, but done right it gets the job done.
today i met a hb8 with just saying
me: hi, my name is ****.
HB: hi im ****
and she had a heavy east european accent so i asked where she was from... and we talked for about an hour between classes. i admit it isnt the fanciest opener, but done right it gets the job done.
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Most people don't realize this. All these opening routines are simply a means of conveying state. If you truly believe that a simple hi would work, it WILL work. But putting out your BEST state in just a simple HI is a tough task. That is why openers exist.Arizona iced tea said:daygameguy, you seem to really know what you are doing
today i met a hb8 with just saying
me: hi, my name is ****.
HB: hi im ****
and she had a heavy east european accent so i asked where she was from... and we talked for about an hour between classes. i admit it isnt the fanciest opener, but done right it gets the job done.
dipset_mafia
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You wanna be forward, but you wanna hold off
You're gonna have class with this chick all semester so don't RUSH the game, right? you have other options in life, work on those and put time into a chick in class...
Chat her up about the syllabus, how she likes the class.. feel her out.. You wanna see what level she's on before you start cracking jokes or flirting.... i.e. if she's not smart enough to get a clever joke, or too stiff to handle something suggestive right off the bat...
If it's the first time I'm talking to a chick, I'll chat her up before and if she starts passing notes and whatever, i'm with that, but REMEMBER you're being observed by an entire class room.. everyone sees the CORN in a classroom pick-up, so don't burn yourself with the other chicks!
Just be everyother guy. be seen making her laugh or whatever. DONT be heard asking for digits or info or whatever, unless its unavoidable... which brings me to: ... approach her on the walk out, walk with her and chat for a bit and go from there.. if you're getting green-light ****-me eyes, then you know you can get the digits easily, or maybe even walk her to a pub or back to your place... but it's fine, you don't need to... CAUSE you'll see her next class!
I mean... leave her hanging the first time if you want, then maybe next class if you don't end up sitting with her you sit with some other chick that you impressed the last time you were in class... and even if that fails, you can always just catch up with the other chick right after class!
either way... point being... you look like a ****ing homo trying to run game in class cause every chick sees it, every dude sees it, and MAYBE I speak for only myself when I say this, but there is nothing more hilarious/repulsive than hearing and seeing some dude trying to run game in class.. period..
You're gonna have class with this chick all semester so don't RUSH the game, right? you have other options in life, work on those and put time into a chick in class...
Chat her up about the syllabus, how she likes the class.. feel her out.. You wanna see what level she's on before you start cracking jokes or flirting.... i.e. if she's not smart enough to get a clever joke, or too stiff to handle something suggestive right off the bat...
If it's the first time I'm talking to a chick, I'll chat her up before and if she starts passing notes and whatever, i'm with that, but REMEMBER you're being observed by an entire class room.. everyone sees the CORN in a classroom pick-up, so don't burn yourself with the other chicks!
Just be everyother guy. be seen making her laugh or whatever. DONT be heard asking for digits or info or whatever, unless its unavoidable... which brings me to: ... approach her on the walk out, walk with her and chat for a bit and go from there.. if you're getting green-light ****-me eyes, then you know you can get the digits easily, or maybe even walk her to a pub or back to your place... but it's fine, you don't need to... CAUSE you'll see her next class!
I mean... leave her hanging the first time if you want, then maybe next class if you don't end up sitting with her you sit with some other chick that you impressed the last time you were in class... and even if that fails, you can always just catch up with the other chick right after class!
either way... point being... you look like a ****ing homo trying to run game in class cause every chick sees it, every dude sees it, and MAYBE I speak for only myself when I say this, but there is nothing more hilarious/repulsive than hearing and seeing some dude trying to run game in class.. period..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Arizona iced tea
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indeed, i figured it out this time, hopefully i can make it happen next timedaygameguy said:
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Here is a tip for a simple "hi" opener:Arizona iced tea said:indeed, i figured it out this time, hopefully i can make it happen next time
Go in close, don't stand away and say hi.
Kino her shoulder, enter her space at an angle.
In your head, tell yourself "okay this time I am just going over the top, no need to put out a reason for my approach, I just wanna find out more about her".
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
oh got i remember about 2 yrs ago one of my first classes i stood beside this girl and i said "do you always come so dressed up in class?" and she looked at me and said "its none of my ****in business what i do"
so, forget stupid openers and just say hello. today i stated chattin it up with this cutie in one of my classes with just a smirk and i said "what do u think about the prof?" and that's it .. we talked 10 minutes after class and she offered me her # without asking for it and asked if i'm busy and want to hang out with her this weekend
the first thing that comes out of your mouth doesnt matter one damn bit. she will forget it.
so, forget stupid openers and just say hello. today i stated chattin it up with this cutie in one of my classes with just a smirk and i said "what do u think about the prof?" and that's it .. we talked 10 minutes after class and she offered me her # without asking for it and asked if i'm busy and want to hang out with her this weekend
the first thing that comes out of your mouth doesnt matter one damn bit. she will forget it.