"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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citing sources....

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howdy,

well, i've been doing a LOT of reading lately and it seems that there's a great deal of cross-polination among these DATE DOCTOR/GURU types....

and yet, very few cite sources.

i am quite certain that they didn't come up with much of this stuff from whole cloth.

so what are some of the original sources to this stuff?

- NLP
- push pull
- ****y funny

it seems that a great deal might come from ROBERT GREENE (art of seduction and 48 laws of power)....

is that it?

reading these ebooks is a lot like watching the XFILES.... you have a distinct feeling that you've seen this before and that the work you're currently experiencing owes much and is a continuation of a long heritage (for xfiles, it would be the likes of KOLCHAK THE NIGHT STALKER, DRACULA and heck, all the way back to HP LOVECRAFT).

so where are we pilfering our strategies from?

a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.

delta
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Delta
a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.
Sounds like a great idea. Let us know when you're done. :)
 

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I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
and hes wht at least in his 40's himself?
 
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