"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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citing sources....

Delta

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howdy,

well, i've been doing a LOT of reading lately and it seems that there's a great deal of cross-polination among these DATE DOCTOR/GURU types....

and yet, very few cite sources.

i am quite certain that they didn't come up with much of this stuff from whole cloth.

so what are some of the original sources to this stuff?

- NLP
- push pull
- ****y funny

it seems that a great deal might come from ROBERT GREENE (art of seduction and 48 laws of power)....

is that it?

reading these ebooks is a lot like watching the XFILES.... you have a distinct feeling that you've seen this before and that the work you're currently experiencing owes much and is a continuation of a long heritage (for xfiles, it would be the likes of KOLCHAK THE NIGHT STALKER, DRACULA and heck, all the way back to HP LOVECRAFT).

so where are we pilfering our strategies from?

a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.

delta
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Delta
a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.
Sounds like a great idea. Let us know when you're done. :)
 

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I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

BLUEox117

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
and hes wht at least in his 40's himself?
 
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