"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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citing sources....

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howdy,

well, i've been doing a LOT of reading lately and it seems that there's a great deal of cross-polination among these DATE DOCTOR/GURU types....

and yet, very few cite sources.

i am quite certain that they didn't come up with much of this stuff from whole cloth.

so what are some of the original sources to this stuff?

- NLP
- push pull
- ****y funny

it seems that a great deal might come from ROBERT GREENE (art of seduction and 48 laws of power)....

is that it?

reading these ebooks is a lot like watching the XFILES.... you have a distinct feeling that you've seen this before and that the work you're currently experiencing owes much and is a continuation of a long heritage (for xfiles, it would be the likes of KOLCHAK THE NIGHT STALKER, DRACULA and heck, all the way back to HP LOVECRAFT).

so where are we pilfering our strategies from?

a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.

delta
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Delta
a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.
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Sounds like a great idea. Let us know when you're done. :)
 
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I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
 
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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
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ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
 
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Originally posted by BLUEox117
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
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but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
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and hes wht at least in his 40's himself?
 
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