"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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citing sources....

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howdy,

well, i've been doing a LOT of reading lately and it seems that there's a great deal of cross-polination among these DATE DOCTOR/GURU types....

and yet, very few cite sources.

i am quite certain that they didn't come up with much of this stuff from whole cloth.

so what are some of the original sources to this stuff?

- NLP
- push pull
- ****y funny

it seems that a great deal might come from ROBERT GREENE (art of seduction and 48 laws of power)....

is that it?

reading these ebooks is a lot like watching the XFILES.... you have a distinct feeling that you've seen this before and that the work you're currently experiencing owes much and is a continuation of a long heritage (for xfiles, it would be the likes of KOLCHAK THE NIGHT STALKER, DRACULA and heck, all the way back to HP LOVECRAFT).

so where are we pilfering our strategies from?

a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.

delta
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Delta
a BIBLIOGRAPHY of actually PRINTED books from the past may be in order for the dj bible.
Sounds like a great idea. Let us know when you're done. :)
 

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I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
I dont take MUCH insight into the doctors and stuff advice, i tend to think more of the DON JUAN tips and advice.
DOCTOR LOVES AND STUFF are too AFC for me, any1 agree?
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
 

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
ya doctor love does give some afc advice.
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by BLUEox117
but then he deals with much older women than 90% of the people here do.
and hes wht at least in his 40's himself?
 
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