Circumcision conversation

[lamath]

Oh I don’t know if it’s Low interest. I think it has a lot to do with me not being able to get it up consistently or losing it. So it makes her self conscience and now she’s grasping for reasons why it won’t work rather than want to work at it.
Because she’s stated many times that she’s. It going to pursue anyone she’s not in to. Most guys don’t make it past 1st date. She’s rarely interested in people. She’s really upfront. This I believe and if she wasn’t in to me she wouldn’t be super wet or always trying to take it to the bedroom.

So I really believe the issue here is my anxiety and losing erection. Annoyingly and embrassibgly enough

You prob know better but keep your eyes open.

 

[Spaz]

Hey I’m wanting to get better. It’s why I’m here. And I value constructive perspective. And yea I am maybe acting passive in the bedroom and in turn imthinking too much, which is creating a whole slew of issues

That's the maximum aggressive response you could muster after I've insulted you with the truth ?

Come'on flow.

How about saying "Fvck you Spaz!" or "I'll show you who's the boss".

Be more aggressive and stop being a little man with a little small voice.

 

[flowtheory]

That's the maximum aggressive response you could muster after I've insulted you with the truth ?

Come'on flow.

How about saying "Fvck you Spaz!" or "I'll show you who's the boss".

Be more aggressive and stop being a little man with a little small voice.

Why do I need to be aggressive? I’m not angry. I’m here to get better? I don’t have to be stirred to be validated. I’m having issues, why lash out towards someone calling me out on something that may be a truth

 

[flowtheory]

You prob know better but keep your eyes open.

Yea if it were low interest, she wouldn’t pick up tabs, talk about new date ideas, want to go out, agree to every date, reserve her weekends for me, etc. Even be around me after me not being able to get it up. But she wants to talk about it and stuff. I think she’s just confused about my possible lack of attraction towards her, so she’s lashing out a bit and trying to make it about something that is fixed like my circumsicion. Bevause thats easiest

And maybe on some weird energy level we’re not sexually compatible.. which would be shame

 

[Spaz]

Dude everyone has done both. Your game is like 1975 game lmao

I understand that this is part of ur coping mechanism.

Feel free to even spin that Spaz is inflicted with BPD. That's gonna massively help you.

 

[Spaz]

Why do I need to be aggressive? I’m not angry. I’m here to get better? I don’t have to be stirred to be validated. I’m having issues, why lash out towards someone calling me out on something that may be a truth

This right here is ur issue.

And it's not lashing. It's setting a boundary.

Know the difference buddy.

 

[lamath]

Yea if it were low interest, she wouldn’t pick up tabs, talk about new date ideas, want to go out, agree to every date, reserve her weekends for me, etc. Even be around me after me not being able to get it up. But she wants to talk about it and stuff. I think she’s just confused about my possible lack of attraction towards her, so she’s lashing out a bit and trying to make it about something that is fixed like my circumsicion. Bevause thats easiest

And maybe on some weird energy level we’re not sexually compatible.. which would be shame

Is that getting it up been a problem before?
Might be medical better have a check up.

 

[flowtheory]

Is that getting it up been a problem before?
Might be medical better have a check up.

Not really. I mean, it’s happened yea. But it’s not medically related. During makeout and foreplay I’m rock hard. Morning wood. It’s just when I’m about to penetrate 50% of the time or midway through and we switch a position..

 

[flowtheory]

This right here is ur issue.

And it's not lashing. It's setting a boundary.

Know the difference buddy.

Shut the hell up Spaz

 

[Spaz]

Shut the hell up Spaz

Now use that same momentarily burst of extra testosterone you used on me when each time a woman disrespects you.

You'll be fine.

 

[flowtheory]

Now use that same momentarily burst of extra testosterone you used on me when each time a woman disrespects you.

You'll be fine.

Ahhh I see.

I guess when dealing with women I still have a scarcity mindset at times during conflict.

 

[lamath]

Not really. I mean, it’s happened yea. But it’s not medically related. During makeout and foreplay I’m rock hard. Morning wood. It’s just when I’m about to penetrate 50% of the time or midway through and we switch a position..

Usually im on the other side of the spectrum, but it did happened to me in the past was cause by lack of attraction.

 

[flowtheory]

Usually im on the other side of the spectrum, but it did happened to me in the past was cause by lack of attraction.

That’s why part of me thinks it’s something of a lack of subconscious attraction. The real reason is.. I don’t know why it’s happening. But it is. And that means something. Next time we hangout I’m going to vaporize a little weed to get me in my body and out of my head. Enjoy the tactile more; less anxious. Break the negative thought loop pattern

 

[Spaz]

Ahhh I see.

I guess when dealing with women I still have a scarcity mindset at times during conflict.

With me that burst of T was initiated by emotions within you - I basically forced it out.

Now train urself to call it forth at will without involving emotions.

The women within ur life must know you have a set of boundaries they mustn't cross - they would feel safer and more attracted with being a man such as this.

Don't argue. Simply state. Then learn how to be dismissive.

 

[BeExcellent]

Performance anxiety.

 

[Spaz]

Performance anxiety.

On the outward outlook yes it is.

On a deeper level it's something else.

His core is influencing how he does things.

 

[flowtheory]

Performance anxiety.

Yes. How to get past?

On the outward outlook yes it is.

On a deeper level it's something else.

His core is influencing how he does things.

True. But this doesn’t happen with every woman.

 

[marmel75]

Lol...great stamina is way longer than 15 minutes bro...

 

[flowtheory]

Lol...great stamina is way longer than 15 minutes bro...

I said 15 minutes minimum. I wouldn’t think 15 minutes is beast mode haha

 

[Ranger]

I understand that you're never finger fvcked a woman and made her cummed.

Here's something else for you LA, I've even made women cummed real hard with anal.

Who else here don't have that ability ?

Come out and state ur name here in this thread.

I can do that.
One from sucking on her tits just right too.

I’ve experienced what Flow is experiencing once before myself.
He doesn’t really want her. Not at a fundamental level. He wants the sex, but he doesn’t really feel anything inside. She does not INSPIRE him and his needs as a man.
That’s for the dik part but it’s also connected to not feeling masculine. He has to kill the girl inside.

To be honest, that girl sh!t should have pissed him off. Not a crazy anger, but a controlled seething. Anger is a valid emotional response to lots of things. The best thing about anger is it can be turned into relentless determination.

Realize that he caused the whole scenario himself. That is his only escape. He will get hard and stay hard right there.