"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cinematic examples of manliness

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First post here, been reading and taking things in for a while. I can't get over the lack of manliness that I see in society, and am frustrated at the way I feel my own growth stunted by some of those I grew up with. Thank god I have a father who set a good example, but I have yet to live up to that example. So I look for inspiration in characters in movies, books, and games. I want to know your favorite scene in any movie that demonstrates a man at his finest.

One for me that comes to mind is the end of Conan the Destroyer. I'm not talking about Arnold being all ripped, and I know that the movie is pretty bad. What I'm getting at is the part where the princess offers a role to every member of Conan's team and finally gives Conan the offer to rule beside her. Everyone else jumped up all happy to take what was offered. And Conan just stands there like the badass he is and says, "I will have my own kingdom." He turns, walks out, almost stops for just a moment, but continues on his way without ever looking back. Mother Fvcker did what he came to do and left to fulfill his destiny: his OWN kingdom. That to me is what being a man is all about. What do you think and what examples do you have that you like?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I saw Untouchable last week, French Film with subtitles, easily the best movie Ive seen this year, the black hoody/carer is an excellent Alpha, his attitude is awesome, based on a true story as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQgEohqf2o8
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Or3okI_mad8


Sure its a trash movie but you can really see the self assured unapologetic attitude a man should have.

Look at 0.50 when the witch appears, he doesnt say to the women to move away cause it could be dangerous and he needs space, he simply push her away.

1.07 he knows what it takes and he doesnt have problem to get it.

2.20 no sentimental bullsh1t or apologies for messing up the place while fighting the villain, he simply takes the girl which he saved.

Its not only the part itself but the attitude.
 

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Charlton Heston in Planet of the Apes.

The scene where he escapes with the sympathetic apes and goes to grab the hot chick.
One of the apes says: "We don't want her!"
He says: "I want her!"
Damn she was hot too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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