"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cinematic examples of manliness

DonJuanathan

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First post here, been reading and taking things in for a while. I can't get over the lack of manliness that I see in society, and am frustrated at the way I feel my own growth stunted by some of those I grew up with. Thank god I have a father who set a good example, but I have yet to live up to that example. So I look for inspiration in characters in movies, books, and games. I want to know your favorite scene in any movie that demonstrates a man at his finest.

One for me that comes to mind is the end of Conan the Destroyer. I'm not talking about Arnold being all ripped, and I know that the movie is pretty bad. What I'm getting at is the part where the princess offers a role to every member of Conan's team and finally gives Conan the offer to rule beside her. Everyone else jumped up all happy to take what was offered. And Conan just stands there like the badass he is and says, "I will have my own kingdom." He turns, walks out, almost stops for just a moment, but continues on his way without ever looking back. Mother Fvcker did what he came to do and left to fulfill his destiny: his OWN kingdom. That to me is what being a man is all about. What do you think and what examples do you have that you like?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I saw Untouchable last week, French Film with subtitles, easily the best movie Ive seen this year, the black hoody/carer is an excellent Alpha, his attitude is awesome, based on a true story as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQgEohqf2o8
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who Dares Win

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Or3okI_mad8


Sure its a trash movie but you can really see the self assured unapologetic attitude a man should have.

Look at 0.50 when the witch appears, he doesnt say to the women to move away cause it could be dangerous and he needs space, he simply push her away.

1.07 he knows what it takes and he doesnt have problem to get it.

2.20 no sentimental bullsh1t or apologies for messing up the place while fighting the villain, he simply takes the girl which he saved.

Its not only the part itself but the attitude.
 

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Charlton Heston in Planet of the Apes.

The scene where he escapes with the sympathetic apes and goes to grab the hot chick.
One of the apes says: "We don't want her!"
He says: "I want her!"
Damn she was hot too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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