Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cinematic examples of manliness

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First post here, been reading and taking things in for a while. I can't get over the lack of manliness that I see in society, and am frustrated at the way I feel my own growth stunted by some of those I grew up with. Thank god I have a father who set a good example, but I have yet to live up to that example. So I look for inspiration in characters in movies, books, and games. I want to know your favorite scene in any movie that demonstrates a man at his finest.

One for me that comes to mind is the end of Conan the Destroyer. I'm not talking about Arnold being all ripped, and I know that the movie is pretty bad. What I'm getting at is the part where the princess offers a role to every member of Conan's team and finally gives Conan the offer to rule beside her. Everyone else jumped up all happy to take what was offered. And Conan just stands there like the badass he is and says, "I will have my own kingdom." He turns, walks out, almost stops for just a moment, but continues on his way without ever looking back. Mother Fvcker did what he came to do and left to fulfill his destiny: his OWN kingdom. That to me is what being a man is all about. What do you think and what examples do you have that you like?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I saw Untouchable last week, French Film with subtitles, easily the best movie Ive seen this year, the black hoody/carer is an excellent Alpha, his attitude is awesome, based on a true story as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQgEohqf2o8
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Or3okI_mad8


Sure its a trash movie but you can really see the self assured unapologetic attitude a man should have.

Look at 0.50 when the witch appears, he doesnt say to the women to move away cause it could be dangerous and he needs space, he simply push her away.

1.07 he knows what it takes and he doesnt have problem to get it.

2.20 no sentimental bullsh1t or apologies for messing up the place while fighting the villain, he simply takes the girl which he saved.

Its not only the part itself but the attitude.
 

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Charlton Heston in Planet of the Apes.

The scene where he escapes with the sympathetic apes and goes to grab the hot chick.
One of the apes says: "We don't want her!"
He says: "I want her!"
Damn she was hot too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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