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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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they are usually the freakiest chicks so im excited bout this girl i just met. what is yall expierences?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by MarkHammond
they are usually the freakiest chicks so im excited bout this girl i just met. what is yall expierences?
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the sexual repression by the church usually makes em more adventurous.
 
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If they are "freaky" then that really doesn't put them in the category of 'church girl' does it? She is just another wh@re - not a revelation there!
 
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There's some kind of mentality they get when they lose their moral and go on a rampage. I was the second guy one like "pure, I don't want to do anything until I'm married" church girl had sex with and she was either almost or the best sex I've had just because of the fact she was intergetic and up for anything... but then again, that's the only one I've been with and it might have just been that girl.
 
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I have to agree with PRL on this one.

She obviously isn't a "Church Girl." Maybe her parents are, mayber her family is and she might be dragged along, but she by all means is not what they call a "church" girl.

Maybe thats something she tells this guy and tells others because she doesn't want to be known as a "SLUT" in her town.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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