"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thatsexytaiwanguy said:
So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
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Ask her out.
 
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Grow a pair of balls and approach her and ask if she wants to go grab a cup of coffee sometime.

It takes a pair of balls do to such a thing, and since you already have feelings for her, you might get burned from it. But trust me, if you don't do it, you'll keep this little nagging feeling for a long time every time you see her.
 
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