"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thatsexytaiwanguy

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So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thatsexytaiwanguy said:
So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
Ask her out.
 

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Grow a pair of balls and approach her and ask if she wants to go grab a cup of coffee sometime.

It takes a pair of balls do to such a thing, and since you already have feelings for her, you might get burned from it. But trust me, if you don't do it, you'll keep this little nagging feeling for a long time every time you see her.
 
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