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So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
 

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thatsexytaiwanguy said:
So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
Ask her out.
 

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Grow a pair of balls and approach her and ask if she wants to go grab a cup of coffee sometime.

It takes a pair of balls do to such a thing, and since you already have feelings for her, you might get burned from it. But trust me, if you don't do it, you'll keep this little nagging feeling for a long time every time you see her.
 
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