"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thatsexytaiwanguy said:
So I've been very interested in this girl from my church lately. However, i hear from people she has been goign on date with this one guy but are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend. I see her around sometimes when hes there and I don't know if they are good friends or if they actually have a "thing". She shows me interest with her looks/glaze and the way she makes me feel...with jokes or whatever. How do I approach this situation. I really like her.
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Ask her out.
 
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Grow a pair of balls and approach her and ask if she wants to go grab a cup of coffee sometime.

It takes a pair of balls do to such a thing, and since you already have feelings for her, you might get burned from it. But trust me, if you don't do it, you'll keep this little nagging feeling for a long time every time you see her.
 
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