“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr. Cardio

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You said EXACTLY WHAT I WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU DEREK, you said the boxer gets beat up enough times until a manager takes them under their wing and SHOWS THEM THE RIGHT WAY, the foot ball player throughs enough wrong passes until something CLICKS and a coach comes along to improve your natural skills, someone comes along and helps the singer, derek, YOU JUST SAID EXACTLY WHAT I WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU, it was the mentor(the coach) that improved the player, the singer, the boxer, not HIS trial and error. All trial and error does is waste TIME. Derek, does it make since to go to college for four years and not know a damn thing about what you wanna do in life, then finally GET IT, OR HAVE IT CLICK, when you get out in four years, or is it more smarter to sit your azz down with a coach and really think it over, that process takes about a couple of weeks if that.

Derek you have the right heart, but the wrong message. You are saying be ambitious and motivated and go out into the field and you will have success, and you are deceiving yourself. Instead, be smart, wise, and know your industry, then go out into the field and progress in the right direction, instead of trying to find out what you are SUPPOSED to be doing right......my way is shorter derek, your way is longer and harder.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've got to wonder why you go to clubs and watch/analyze the actions of other guys...
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
Derek you have the right heart, but the wrong message. You are saying be ambitious and motivated and go out into the field and you will have success, and you are deceiving yourself.
Okay, we'll both take one student to master the art of seduction. First, we'll try it your way. Hand him your handbook, tell him everything you know, throw out knowledge that makes no sense to him and then have him go out there and play the field.

Then we'll try it my way. Have him go out there and play the field. Let him fail. In fact, encourage him to fail! And we let him fail until a female actually shows interest in him. Then we take a step back and we let him observe his OWN actions. we are only there to help him observe his own actions and help guide him in the right direction. Not TELL HIM what the right direction is.

And then we can talk about whether or not my way is deceitful or not.
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE

Whats wrong with the fat guy? Why doesn't he throw the ball?
.....because he's a lineman. his job is to either stop or make the blitz. he has nothing to do with the ball.,
 

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Originally posted by lebRambo
.....because he's a lineman. his job is to either stop or make the blitz. he has nothing to do with the ball.,
DUH! thanks Rambo.

you took my quote completely out of context.

Read the whole post, it makes sense.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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derek, do what you want. You still seem to not be understandin what I am saying to you anyway. I dont have a damn handbook. Its simple nature, women are attracted to men who are dominant, dominant in body language, basically, its mostly non verbal shyt that the man is doing.........why do you think women are attracted to jerks and thugs, its the projection they are giving off.

He can go out in the field and fail and fail, if he is not being the dominant male, which is his nature, he is screwed either way. Hell derek, beta males and AFCs can get girls my friend, its not about him going out and failing and gettign a girl attracted then he says, thats it, to get girls, you must be nice and buy them stuff, because I did that with her and she liked me! Derek, do you see what I am saying...

If the guy knew the truth, he would turn into the guy that every girl wants, and he can PICK his bytch, not just happen to get lucky with a bytch. Derek, your way teaches him nothing. And him goign out and failing over and over means nothing either, because teh success is not in getting a GIRL, the success is in gettign the girl you WANT, and KEEPING HER. Derek, your way will have the guy getting rejected and rejected and finally getting a girl to say yes, but it will be the nagging, masculine, gold diggin bytch that we all hate, derek, stop preaching the wrong message to the man.
 
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