"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Cardio

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You said EXACTLY WHAT I WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU DEREK, you said the boxer gets beat up enough times until a manager takes them under their wing and SHOWS THEM THE RIGHT WAY, the foot ball player throughs enough wrong passes until something CLICKS and a coach comes along to improve your natural skills, someone comes along and helps the singer, derek, YOU JUST SAID EXACTLY WHAT I WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU, it was the mentor(the coach) that improved the player, the singer, the boxer, not HIS trial and error. All trial and error does is waste TIME. Derek, does it make since to go to college for four years and not know a damn thing about what you wanna do in life, then finally GET IT, OR HAVE IT CLICK, when you get out in four years, or is it more smarter to sit your azz down with a coach and really think it over, that process takes about a couple of weeks if that.

Derek you have the right heart, but the wrong message. You are saying be ambitious and motivated and go out into the field and you will have success, and you are deceiving yourself. Instead, be smart, wise, and know your industry, then go out into the field and progress in the right direction, instead of trying to find out what you are SUPPOSED to be doing right......my way is shorter derek, your way is longer and harder.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've got to wonder why you go to clubs and watch/analyze the actions of other guys...
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
Derek you have the right heart, but the wrong message. You are saying be ambitious and motivated and go out into the field and you will have success, and you are deceiving yourself.
Okay, we'll both take one student to master the art of seduction. First, we'll try it your way. Hand him your handbook, tell him everything you know, throw out knowledge that makes no sense to him and then have him go out there and play the field.

Then we'll try it my way. Have him go out there and play the field. Let him fail. In fact, encourage him to fail! And we let him fail until a female actually shows interest in him. Then we take a step back and we let him observe his OWN actions. we are only there to help him observe his own actions and help guide him in the right direction. Not TELL HIM what the right direction is.

And then we can talk about whether or not my way is deceitful or not.
 

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE

Whats wrong with the fat guy? Why doesn't he throw the ball?
.....because he's a lineman. his job is to either stop or make the blitz. he has nothing to do with the ball.,
 

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Originally posted by lebRambo
.....because he's a lineman. his job is to either stop or make the blitz. he has nothing to do with the ball.,
DUH! thanks Rambo.

you took my quote completely out of context.

Read the whole post, it makes sense.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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derek, do what you want. You still seem to not be understandin what I am saying to you anyway. I dont have a damn handbook. Its simple nature, women are attracted to men who are dominant, dominant in body language, basically, its mostly non verbal shyt that the man is doing.........why do you think women are attracted to jerks and thugs, its the projection they are giving off.

He can go out in the field and fail and fail, if he is not being the dominant male, which is his nature, he is screwed either way. Hell derek, beta males and AFCs can get girls my friend, its not about him going out and failing and gettign a girl attracted then he says, thats it, to get girls, you must be nice and buy them stuff, because I did that with her and she liked me! Derek, do you see what I am saying...

If the guy knew the truth, he would turn into the guy that every girl wants, and he can PICK his bytch, not just happen to get lucky with a bytch. Derek, your way teaches him nothing. And him goign out and failing over and over means nothing either, because teh success is not in getting a GIRL, the success is in gettign the girl you WANT, and KEEPING HER. Derek, your way will have the guy getting rejected and rejected and finally getting a girl to say yes, but it will be the nagging, masculine, gold diggin bytch that we all hate, derek, stop preaching the wrong message to the man.
 
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