Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chubby girl with guy who lifts/fit

ThisNThat

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There's this woman online that is dating this fitness and buff guy. Teaches classes on eating right. I met him and he is a cool guy, but I think his g/f has been putting on some weight. She's trying to wear outfits that would be more flattering on a thinner woman and a 2-piece outfit may not quite cut it anymore on her.

She's got a 10 face though, stunning and fortunately for her...her weight fills out in all the right places, but compared to him...her BMI is probably pretty high. She kind of overdoes it with the A.W.'ing on FB, she seems to be quite into herself.

I think I mentioned before how some women can get away with weight gain when it comes to physical appearance...so that is an example. Do you think this gym guru is settling or can curves on a woman, even though she's hasn't seen a gym in a long time, make up for it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75

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BMI is such a completely irrelevant measurement of health, it's almost pointless.

I was 185 lbs with single digit body fat at 5' 8" tall but my BMI said I was obese. Not sure how many other obese people have abs, but I don't think there are many.

Anyone who seriously lifts and seriously does lower body work will weigh an extra 20+ lbs more than what their BMI "says" is ideal. Your lower body can hold a tremendous amount of muscle, but most people rarely work it properly.
 

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some dudes genuinley like fatter chicks, it's like a fetish.
 
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