"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Chubby girl with guy who lifts/fit

T

ThisNThat

Banned
Joined
Feb 13, 2017
Messages
632
Reaction score
167
Age
54
There's this woman online that is dating this fitness and buff guy. Teaches classes on eating right. I met him and he is a cool guy, but I think his g/f has been putting on some weight. She's trying to wear outfits that would be more flattering on a thinner woman and a 2-piece outfit may not quite cut it anymore on her.

She's got a 10 face though, stunning and fortunately for her...her weight fills out in all the right places, but compared to him...her BMI is probably pretty high. She kind of overdoes it with the A.W.'ing on FB, she seems to be quite into herself.

I think I mentioned before how some women can get away with weight gain when it comes to physical appearance...so that is an example. Do you think this gym guru is settling or can curves on a woman, even though she's hasn't seen a gym in a long time, make up for it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

marmel75

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
BMI is such a completely irrelevant measurement of health, it's almost pointless.

I was 185 lbs with single digit body fat at 5' 8" tall but my BMI said I was obese. Not sure how many other obese people have abs, but I don't think there are many.

Anyone who seriously lifts and seriously does lower body work will weigh an extra 20+ lbs more than what their BMI "says" is ideal. Your lower body can hold a tremendous amount of muscle, but most people rarely work it properly.
 
Infern0

Infern0

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2015
Messages
1,637
Reaction score
1,462
some dudes genuinley like fatter chicks, it's like a fetish.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top