"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chubby Chasers

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One thing I've been noticing when I go out, having lost a lot of weight myself, is how many of the girls are overweight. (I am in the US). These are girls who are young, well dressed, have pretty faces, but are just seriously overweight. I would say over half of the girls in any club are overweight. Of the normal/thin girls, most have average faces. So, maybe only 1 in 5 girls are truly attractive: nice body and nice face. And I don't mean exceptionally attractive, just attractive enough to spend time gaming.

Many of my friends find these big girls attractive. I sometimes look at them with shock as they try (often successfully) to "pick up" these girls. I even think my taste in girls is changing a bit as I begin to see the world through their eyes a bit.

Do you guys consider a heavier girl attractive? What's frightening to me is that these girls may actually come to think of themselves as hot, and start getting an attitude, just like girls who actually are attractive.

Question 1: what is the appeal of the bigger girl?
Question 2: are guys who chase big girls suffering from low self esteem or are certain guys just naturally attracted to bigger builds?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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total_afc said:
are guys who chase big girls suffering from low self esteem or are certain guys just naturally attracted to bigger builds?
You pretty much nailed it here. The mentality of an AFC is that if they get rejected by a "big girl" it won't mean anything. They aren't risking anything. Their chances of success are immeasurably higher as well, especially if they posses anything close to "average" looks.

There IS someone for everyone, but the amount of "chubby chasers" out there is likely absurdly disproportionate to the number of guys who are genuinely attracted to larger ladies. Some people are just looking for love an acceptance and will put up with it to get that.
 

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whats AFC stand for?

I HEAR YOU about overly fat girls getting the hot chick attitude, it just makes me laugh.
 

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Some guys like thick chicks. Not flabby fat fvcks but chicks with some meat who can throw the ass around are A-ok :up:

And to answer you new brother, AFC means: Average Frustrated Chump. What you are until you pop your cherry.

Read the bible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Snatchmaster said:
The nice thing about really obese chicks is that you can pretend they are a giant breast with a vagina. :D
That's just plain nasty. What's worse is the article from the May '07 Details magazine.

Super-size Me!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's just plain nasty. What's worse is the article from the May '07 Details magazine.

Super-size Me!
That is an entertainingly horrible article. Great to read. I've sent it to everyone I know.
 

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That is an entertainingly horrible article. Great to read. I've sent it to everyone I know.
And I bet they will love you for it... ;)
 

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Thick girls, fat girls and obese girls are all in leagues of their own. Say not to fat and obese, that just nasty. Thick girls are where its at with their accentuated body parts. Nice thighs, plump ass and big titties...muy bueno.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OK, so what is the difference? A pic of each as an example would be good, anyone, not just oakraider can post. Sometimes, I wonder if "thick" is euphemism for "fat?"

oakraiderz2 said:
Thick girls, fat girls and obese girls are all in leagues of their own. Say not to fat and obese, that just nasty. Thick girls are where its at with their accentuated body parts. Nice thighs, plump ass and big titties...muy bueno.
 

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total_afc said:
OK, so what is the difference? A pic of each as an example would be good, anyone, not just oakraider can post. Sometimes, I wonder if "thick" is euphemism for "fat?"
Fat girls: have a gut, small titties or big, fat tits (eww), fatness everywhere on their body.

Thick girls: bigger than average ass and thighs, but not fat. Nice stomach, big boobs, and is in good shape.

Thick girls are pretty much the same as skinny girls, but a bigger frame thats much better...jea.
 

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oh man, that article is disgusting. Yet morbidly fascinating....kinda like a train wreck... :p

And yeah, thick girls are where its at :)
 
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