“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Christmas presents for your plates?

sylvester the cat

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that time is approaching. The time where I dread having to part with my cash or risk looking like the miser.

Do you buy presents for your plates? If so what do you get them?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not unless you're trying to move her up to starting pitcher.
 

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Not a chance especially for a plate. I don't even buy my mother a christmas present!
 

El Payaso

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jurry said:
Not unless you're trying to move her up to starting pitcher.
Lol. This. If she's your girlfriend then go ahead.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For my girl...since she was good...

A couple of nice items from banana republic
A nice new coat, and some workout gear.
Baking utensils

She made a mention of an iPad - but I drew the line!
 

hop On hop Off

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There is no way to tell given so little information between you two.

I think if a present destroyed your chances with her, then you guys are probably not strong to begin with.

You should worry about the larger picture---where are you at with her right now, and what can you do.
 

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Good qxtn.

My plate just asked me what I wanted for Christmas.

She did the same last year, bought me a present and I felt obliged to reciprocate, history trying to repeat itself.

As to what I'll get? Not sure yet. Last year I bought her a MK wallet but I'm feeling stingy this year.
 

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tell her you wont be around over the holidays

problem solved
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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I'll be shopping for small gifts for my plates. I'm generous and they deserve it.
 

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If you do decide to buy a gift, small creative stuff is the way to go. My GF is a Chapstick fiend (nice soft lips for my c0ck) so for her bday I bought a gumball machine and filled it up with mini chapsticks. She d@mn near cried and talked about it for weeks - and I spent less than $75 on it.

Another idea is to buy her something YOU like. Maybe a jersey from your favorite football team. Or a fishing pole (and then take her fishing).
 
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