"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Christmas at 18

amazingswayze

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So now this is my first year being 18. I don't feel drastically different at all but my attitude has changed a bit. This year, I had no Christmas spirit. I didn't even ask for anything other than a fitbit and a food scale. I haven't opened up presents yet but I'm sure my mom got me more things. Last year was really cool because I got a PS4 and some games to go with it, clothes, other things I can't remember.

This year, I had no christmas spirit. The buildup was virtually nonexistent. I don't get excited about many things anymore. I am sort of cynical.

Only cool thing about being 18 is I can vote.

How do you guys feel? How does the idea of Christmas change as you age? I'm beginning to witness firsthand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maximus Rex

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Christmas is my favorite holiday. With that being said, I feel the same way about it now that I did as a kid.
 

beforeimgone

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Personally, I believe that Christmas is a pagan holiday and that it has only one purpose; however, I am a huge advocate of every single one of the average Christmas beliefs.


Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!
 

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Personally, I believe that Christmas is a pagan holiday and that it has only one purpose; however, I am a huge advocate of every single one of the average Christmas beliefs.


Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays!
Well...yes and no. The Pagan Holiday was called the Festival of Saturnalia which was held 12/17-12/25. However, the early Christians wouldn't stop celebrating the Festival of Saturnalia so they decided to move it to coincide with it.

It actually was the ultimate if you can't beat them, join them at the time.

http://www.simpletoremember.com/vitals/Christmas_TheRealStory.htm
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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