"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Christian Moral Structure

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My boyfriend is Catholic, and many of the great marriages I see around me are Catholic couples, Catholic families. I have been impressed for years by many of these couples.

My ex husband was raised Catholic and his mother had an incredible marriage until the loss of his father. His mom was a virgin until her wedding night. She loved, cherished and adored her husband.

So I find myself drawn to men with this background. Its traditional, it's family centric, and it's sacrificial in the sense that you sacrifice self and selfishness for something greater than yourself. The man and the wife do this in the marriages I see in my social circle. The dynamic is beautiful and the children grow up to be well rounded, impressive people.

Hope y'all are enjoying your trip :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A Catholic women would be attracted to a man whose attributes closely resembles that of Jesus - strength of character, compassion, deep love, leadership etc.
 

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Lutherans are like "Catholic Lite," and they are still far too ritualistic for me. Services consist largely of creepy chants read from a book. I think they sound like forest druids. All that crap was pagan rituals, you know? They just change the names around so that they could attract followers. Worshiping the mother of Jesus is basic fertility goddess stuff. People have been doing that since the beginning of time. And if anyone ever actually reads the Bible, which I doubt, they would find that any form of paganism is the fast track to pissing off God. That's why it's the first commandment.
 

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The organized church (RCs, protestants, orthodox) have abandoned or downplayed (protestants and orthodox) the 'new covenant' and have been captured and imprisioned by Satan and put under the 'old covenant'. Their teachings, doctrines, and traditions prove this.

Just ask an RC, when the 'ten commandments' was completed.

They all still believe the 'old covenant' still applies.

Bottom line, these churches are prisions.
 
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Christian structure is about control and manipulation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That sounds like the Pharisees, the church people who were the enemy of Jesus and eventually helped get him executed. If the church killed the son of God, then why I am supposed to go to church to celebrate?
The Lord forgave the adulterers, and thieves. ...but the people who made the law the center of their lives and imprisioned those in their care....NO, he hated them.

The only thing worse than legalism is Satan himself.

 
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Lutherans are like "Catholic Lite," and they are still far too ritualistic for me. Services consist largely of creepy chants read from a book. I think they sound like forest druids. All that crap was pagan rituals, you know? They just change the names around so that they could attract followers. Worshiping the mother of Jesus is basic fertility goddess stuff. People have been doing that since the beginning of time. And if anyone ever actually reads the Bible, which I doubt, they would find that any form of paganism is the fast track to pissing off God. That's why it's the first commandment.
Yawn.:rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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