"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My boyfriend is Catholic, and many of the great marriages I see around me are Catholic couples, Catholic families. I have been impressed for years by many of these couples.

My ex husband was raised Catholic and his mother had an incredible marriage until the loss of his father. His mom was a virgin until her wedding night. She loved, cherished and adored her husband.

So I find myself drawn to men with this background. Its traditional, it's family centric, and it's sacrificial in the sense that you sacrifice self and selfishness for something greater than yourself. The man and the wife do this in the marriages I see in my social circle. The dynamic is beautiful and the children grow up to be well rounded, impressive people.

Hope y'all are enjoying your trip :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A Catholic women would be attracted to a man whose attributes closely resembles that of Jesus - strength of character, compassion, deep love, leadership etc.
 

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Lutherans are like "Catholic Lite," and they are still far too ritualistic for me. Services consist largely of creepy chants read from a book. I think they sound like forest druids. All that crap was pagan rituals, you know? They just change the names around so that they could attract followers. Worshiping the mother of Jesus is basic fertility goddess stuff. People have been doing that since the beginning of time. And if anyone ever actually reads the Bible, which I doubt, they would find that any form of paganism is the fast track to pissing off God. That's why it's the first commandment.
 

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The organized church (RCs, protestants, orthodox) have abandoned or downplayed (protestants and orthodox) the 'new covenant' and have been captured and imprisioned by Satan and put under the 'old covenant'. Their teachings, doctrines, and traditions prove this.

Just ask an RC, when the 'ten commandments' was completed.

They all still believe the 'old covenant' still applies.

Bottom line, these churches are prisions.
 
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Christian structure is about control and manipulation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That sounds like the Pharisees, the church people who were the enemy of Jesus and eventually helped get him executed. If the church killed the son of God, then why I am supposed to go to church to celebrate?
The Lord forgave the adulterers, and thieves. ...but the people who made the law the center of their lives and imprisioned those in their care....NO, he hated them.

The only thing worse than legalism is Satan himself.

 
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Lutherans are like "Catholic Lite," and they are still far too ritualistic for me. Services consist largely of creepy chants read from a book. I think they sound like forest druids. All that crap was pagan rituals, you know? They just change the names around so that they could attract followers. Worshiping the mother of Jesus is basic fertility goddess stuff. People have been doing that since the beginning of time. And if anyone ever actually reads the Bible, which I doubt, they would find that any form of paganism is the fast track to pissing off God. That's why it's the first commandment.
Yawn.:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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