Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Christian girls,....I mean sluts!

PapiChulo

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A funny experience/experiment I just had :

a friend of mine picked up a real christian girl, 18 probably a virgin, but because of how much of a chump he is he failed to bang her during their first date when she was actually at his place. (Yes, I could not believe that myself). So after a week he ended up being friend-zoned and not getting any from her for sure. She was trying to pusy-whip him at some point when I intertwined and told him to man up. We were drunk and he ended up being over the top sexual with her and finished by calling her a "wh0re", and some extra downright disgusting talk. At this point she disappears for awhile, while he ignores her (per my instruction), and comes back right at him, again as if she wants to get f*cked. They end up fighting again, she is called a "slut" at the end. Yet another week passes by and she chats him up on facebook suddenly. Same thing, he booty-calls her, almost pushes her to come over and get it over with. She suggests that it's too late and that "he should have gone for it during the first date". (ha ha). At this moment he ruins it by asking her if I (myself) could double-team her with him, and then pee on her face.(I would do it- don't ask). Well, she deletes him from facebook. I tell him to text her that she should apologize to him for disrespecting him so much.

And yes, I think she will be back after all this abuse. ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HolyG

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thank you for telling me NOT what to be like when i'm 25
 

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i love it lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It seems to me that your buddy is a bit of a brat and has some serious growing up to do. There's nothing suave about calling a girl a slut like a stroppy child because he couldn't get her into bed. If she's smart, she'll realise he's exactly that and will ignore his text.
 

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You never make a girl feel slvtty if you want to get anywhere with her sexually. He could of transformed her anger into raw attraction if handled correctly. Their first date was not his only opportunity, he had plenty. The girl probably thinks you're both a joke now. I don't think she'll be coming back.

-Scars
 

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Oh, growing up-that's for sure- he is only 21, he screws up and asks me on how to fix it.

I guess he did not care whether he gets it or not, hence he is in a relationship, and spinning at least 3 different plates as of now. All this is fueled by liquor, and there you have it. Apart from that, she is crazy in her own way, only worth bang and dump. We are guilty of having some fun with her for sure.


There is a lot to learn about the women in there, not so much about our immature behavior.
 

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I got a good laugh outta that
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going to a church doesn't mean your Christian.


And by the way, what if the girl was Islamic or a Jew would you label all girls who are Islam or Jews sluts?

Would you rename your thread.

Islamic girls,....I mean sluts!


Or would you think again since it might offend someone.
 

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No my friend, I am in "liberal Canada", where we are allowed to attack Christianity and the white man's way of life only, Islam and Judaism are a "no-no". If you wanna build a mosque or a synagogue, or a Sikh temple, you are very much welcome to do so. If you want to build a church - they won't let you!
 
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