no man, just get more hours sleep first and then decide if you will'Atta Girl. Breakfast of champions.
I know the feelingI'm think about taking a few days off.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
no man, just get more hours sleep first and then decide if you will'Atta Girl. Breakfast of champions.
I know the feelingI'm think about taking a few days off.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I feel I was born on a bike and its probably how I will die. I only bike at a steady pace on high gear to condition(save)my knees for work.Getting in shape is a delicate thing at times. I would highly recommend an Oura ring. I find that people generally work out too much.
The walks are a great idea that can be done every day. I’m not a proponent of longer distance/time workouts at higher heart rates. Slows progress way too much. It slows conditioning.
There’s a guy one here with what at first glance appears to be bad arse workouts. Huge mistake to follow his ideas. I grew muscle and cardio conditions with half or ever 1/4 of the workouts he does.
If you read the workouts of the past successful Olympians, most of their workouts were 30 minutes or shorter in length. True story.
The most I work out is three times a week. Last week I only did two workouts. We as humans want what use to be normal in the distant past and we want it right now.
Riding a bike IS running to your genetics. If you are going to run keep it at less than two miles. I prefer one mile despite the fact that I can do a recon shuffle across the terrain for eight hours with a rifle, seven magazines fully loaded and a pack on. This is necessity but not smart. If done more than once a month, I will not ever recover. Ever.
The quickest way to failure is training when your body is not ready to go again. In ancient times we walked every day. Sometimes miles and miles, but it was a walk. Not a run. Biking is running. Ride leisurely unless you know for a fact your body is ready for it. You will get in shape. In a couple of months you will be able to walk ten miles easily.
I can take a great runner or triathlete and put him with a bad arse ground humper and you will find out who is really in shape. Mentally and physically. This is why units do full pack 10-20 mile humps with all their gear. You separate the two types of conditioning really fast.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's it? Came to see if you were climbing Kilimanjaro, or wrestling alligators!40 min walk
awesome neg mr. whoThat's it? Came to see if you were climbing Kilimanjaro, or wrestling alligators!![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thanks hey, much respect for your leadership words.Wise choice. Keep diet in. That’s important. Retraining a body really does work.
I'm already impressed by you. But if I saw you wrestle an alligator, I would think man she's got to be great in the saI think of you guys on sosuave and how you're all crushing even bigger endurance goals than me and I smarten the f*ck up. Thank God for men like you that are only impressed by great peakclimbing or lizard submissions.
Man, you know this is serious in these covid times.Yeah I’m a bit envious of those with warmer weather able to take walks. Here in Colorado it’s still a bit too nippy to have a sunny walk lately. I need some vitamin D bad. I don’t like doing supplements if I can avoid it. I need some sun.
oh ok.I do take them.That and vitamin K when I can’t get enough sun. I like walking in shorts only, in the sun to charge me up. I’m not the laying out in the sun type. I need to be doing something.
Im getting a bit impatient is all Christie.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.