"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Choco-Lovers of Sosuave, REPRESENT

Do you preferably date light skinned women, or women of color?

  • Totally Dark ebony women (burnt)

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • Light Skinned Colored Women (Rihanna, Halle Berry etc)

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • Dark Skinned White Women (Jersey Shore etc)

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • Fair Complexion Women

    Votes: 6 31.6%

  • Total voters
    19

Black Dog

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It's strange I see the majority of users on here, when they post their pics of attractive women it's usually light-skinned females! I see considerably more white skinned girls on here than Mexican, Black, Indian etc. When I say white I mean Russian, European, American etc.

Where's the love for our chocolate princesses?! I was raised in a Latin family so I saw my fair share of beautiful Latinas. Naturally I think because of my upbringing (and the fact that I'm the whitest guy in my family) I am drawn to women of color.

People complain black girls usually have attitude problems, but light skinned African girls are absolutely gorgeous. Same with Latinas and Filipinas etc.
I'd take a curvy light black girl over a thin white girl all the time!!!

Lauren London

Zoe Saldana

Rihanna

Halle Berry

Coloured Women >>> White Women!!!!

There's always exceptions of course, but my point stands.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KarmaSutra

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I banged down a 29 year old ebony goddess a coupla' weeks ago.

That b!tch was who Dyson modeled his vacuum after. The DSL's were superb.

Truly a glorious d!cksucker. The darker skinned woman loves the bald, tattoo'ed burly bastard.
 

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everyone rails on me for dating white women. I like black women too. would **** the **** out of amy holmes.
 

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I am a white guy, and generally prefer white women. If I had to create my ideal woman, she would be brunette with dark skin.

With that being said, I have a crazy crush on Lauren London, and have for a while. When I'm out, I find myself hitting on black chicks pretty regularly. I got this one girl I've known since freshman year of college that I'm starting to test some new DJ skills on, as well. Generally, I don't think black women are as attractive, but when you find a good one.... oh my god...
 

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Man those women are all smoking hot and drop dead sexy. I've never thought of halle berry as incredibly fine, until I saw those melons.

But OP you contradict yourself with the last picture.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I prefer Light skinned A.K.A "Red Bones" but couldn't care less if shes white black blue or purple. Why have the regular flavor when you can have the variety pack

:up:
 

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I have no preference. I've dated/had sex with both. My favorite look are Indian girls though - I love that brown skin with long straight black hair thing they have going.

Black women seem to love me for some reason. I think it's because I have so little black culture in me (hate rap/hip-hip, can't dance, etc.) that I'm seen as somewhat of a rarity or challenge.
 

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PDubb75 said:
I am a white guy, and generally prefer white women. If I had to create my ideal woman, she would be brunette with dark skin.

With that being said, I have a crazy crush on Lauren London, and have for a while. When I'm out, I find myself hitting on black chicks pretty regularly. I got this one girl I've known since freshman year of college that I'm starting to test some new DJ skills on, as well. Generally, I don't think black women are as attractive, but when you find a good one.... oh my god...
Just googled.. mother of ****ing god yes. this.\

halley berry is a clone of my mom, i never could get into that, though she is pretty.
 

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I've dated just about every race. At this point in the game it boils down to if I think she's hot and how she treats me. That being said, redheads do tend to get my motor running a little bit more than most.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Warrior74 said:
I've dated just about every race. At this point in the game it boils down to if I think she's hot and how she treats me. That being said, redheads do tend to get my motor running a little bit more than most.
Warrior74, I feel you brother. I don't really mind any races, but I'm also a whiteboy and I'll say that girls opposite of me (i.e. dark) have always tickled my fancy.


So I vote poll choice #2.

Also,

backbreaker said:
Just googled.. mother of ****ing god yes. this.\

halley berry is a clone of my mom, i never could get into that, though she is pretty.
There was no need to Google.....her picture was in the OP..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PDubb75

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some comedian told a joke one day, white people are pale, when they blush they are red, when they get hurt they turn purple, when they die they turn yellowish, yet black people are the colored's ones lol
 

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PrettyBoyAJ loves the light skinned colored girls. Ain't nothing like a yellow model.
 

SamTheHobit

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im a white guy and white and asian girls are the only females im interested in.

supose its the way I have been raised.

but eveyone to their own.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Black girls in general just have a little bit too much ass for powpow.

I thought this thread was about real chocolate, in which case Im on that 80% cacao joint.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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