"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Choco-Lovers of Sosuave, REPRESENT

Do you preferably date light skinned women, or women of color?

  • Totally Dark ebony women (burnt)

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • Light Skinned Colored Women (Rihanna, Halle Berry etc)

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • Dark Skinned White Women (Jersey Shore etc)

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • Fair Complexion Women

    Votes: 6 31.6%

  • Total voters
    19

Black Dog

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It's strange I see the majority of users on here, when they post their pics of attractive women it's usually light-skinned females! I see considerably more white skinned girls on here than Mexican, Black, Indian etc. When I say white I mean Russian, European, American etc.

Where's the love for our chocolate princesses?! I was raised in a Latin family so I saw my fair share of beautiful Latinas. Naturally I think because of my upbringing (and the fact that I'm the whitest guy in my family) I am drawn to women of color.

People complain black girls usually have attitude problems, but light skinned African girls are absolutely gorgeous. Same with Latinas and Filipinas etc.
I'd take a curvy light black girl over a thin white girl all the time!!!

Lauren London

Zoe Saldana

Rihanna

Halle Berry

Coloured Women >>> White Women!!!!

There's always exceptions of course, but my point stands.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KarmaSutra

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I banged down a 29 year old ebony goddess a coupla' weeks ago.

That b!tch was who Dyson modeled his vacuum after. The DSL's were superb.

Truly a glorious d!cksucker. The darker skinned woman loves the bald, tattoo'ed burly bastard.
 

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everyone rails on me for dating white women. I like black women too. would **** the **** out of amy holmes.
 

PDubb75

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I am a white guy, and generally prefer white women. If I had to create my ideal woman, she would be brunette with dark skin.

With that being said, I have a crazy crush on Lauren London, and have for a while. When I'm out, I find myself hitting on black chicks pretty regularly. I got this one girl I've known since freshman year of college that I'm starting to test some new DJ skills on, as well. Generally, I don't think black women are as attractive, but when you find a good one.... oh my god...
 

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Man those women are all smoking hot and drop dead sexy. I've never thought of halle berry as incredibly fine, until I saw those melons.

But OP you contradict yourself with the last picture.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ProDJ26

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I prefer Light skinned A.K.A "Red Bones" but couldn't care less if shes white black blue or purple. Why have the regular flavor when you can have the variety pack

:up:
 

WhitePimp

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I have no preference. I've dated/had sex with both. My favorite look are Indian girls though - I love that brown skin with long straight black hair thing they have going.

Black women seem to love me for some reason. I think it's because I have so little black culture in me (hate rap/hip-hip, can't dance, etc.) that I'm seen as somewhat of a rarity or challenge.
 

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PDubb75 said:
I am a white guy, and generally prefer white women. If I had to create my ideal woman, she would be brunette with dark skin.

With that being said, I have a crazy crush on Lauren London, and have for a while. When I'm out, I find myself hitting on black chicks pretty regularly. I got this one girl I've known since freshman year of college that I'm starting to test some new DJ skills on, as well. Generally, I don't think black women are as attractive, but when you find a good one.... oh my god...
Just googled.. mother of ****ing god yes. this.\

halley berry is a clone of my mom, i never could get into that, though she is pretty.
 

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I've dated just about every race. At this point in the game it boils down to if I think she's hot and how she treats me. That being said, redheads do tend to get my motor running a little bit more than most.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Warrior74 said:
I've dated just about every race. At this point in the game it boils down to if I think she's hot and how she treats me. That being said, redheads do tend to get my motor running a little bit more than most.
Warrior74, I feel you brother. I don't really mind any races, but I'm also a whiteboy and I'll say that girls opposite of me (i.e. dark) have always tickled my fancy.


So I vote poll choice #2.

Also,

backbreaker said:
Just googled.. mother of ****ing god yes. this.\

halley berry is a clone of my mom, i never could get into that, though she is pretty.
There was no need to Google.....her picture was in the OP..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PDubb75

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some comedian told a joke one day, white people are pale, when they blush they are red, when they get hurt they turn purple, when they die they turn yellowish, yet black people are the colored's ones lol
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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PrettyBoyAJ loves the light skinned colored girls. Ain't nothing like a yellow model.
 

SamTheHobit

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im a white guy and white and asian girls are the only females im interested in.

supose its the way I have been raised.

but eveyone to their own.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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powpow

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Black girls in general just have a little bit too much ass for powpow.

I thought this thread was about real chocolate, in which case Im on that 80% cacao joint.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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