"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Choco-Lovers of Sosuave, REPRESENT

Do you preferably date light skinned women, or women of color?

  • Totally Dark ebony women (burnt)

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • Light Skinned Colored Women (Rihanna, Halle Berry etc)

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • Dark Skinned White Women (Jersey Shore etc)

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • Fair Complexion Women

    Votes: 6 31.6%

  • Total voters
    19

Black Dog

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It's strange I see the majority of users on here, when they post their pics of attractive women it's usually light-skinned females! I see considerably more white skinned girls on here than Mexican, Black, Indian etc. When I say white I mean Russian, European, American etc.

Where's the love for our chocolate princesses?! I was raised in a Latin family so I saw my fair share of beautiful Latinas. Naturally I think because of my upbringing (and the fact that I'm the whitest guy in my family) I am drawn to women of color.

People complain black girls usually have attitude problems, but light skinned African girls are absolutely gorgeous. Same with Latinas and Filipinas etc.
I'd take a curvy light black girl over a thin white girl all the time!!!

Lauren London

Zoe Saldana

Rihanna

Halle Berry

Coloured Women >>> White Women!!!!

There's always exceptions of course, but my point stands.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KarmaSutra

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I banged down a 29 year old ebony goddess a coupla' weeks ago.

That b!tch was who Dyson modeled his vacuum after. The DSL's were superb.

Truly a glorious d!cksucker. The darker skinned woman loves the bald, tattoo'ed burly bastard.
 

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everyone rails on me for dating white women. I like black women too. would **** the **** out of amy holmes.
 

PDubb75

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I am a white guy, and generally prefer white women. If I had to create my ideal woman, she would be brunette with dark skin.

With that being said, I have a crazy crush on Lauren London, and have for a while. When I'm out, I find myself hitting on black chicks pretty regularly. I got this one girl I've known since freshman year of college that I'm starting to test some new DJ skills on, as well. Generally, I don't think black women are as attractive, but when you find a good one.... oh my god...
 

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Man those women are all smoking hot and drop dead sexy. I've never thought of halle berry as incredibly fine, until I saw those melons.

But OP you contradict yourself with the last picture.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ProDJ26

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I prefer Light skinned A.K.A "Red Bones" but couldn't care less if shes white black blue or purple. Why have the regular flavor when you can have the variety pack

:up:
 

WhitePimp

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I have no preference. I've dated/had sex with both. My favorite look are Indian girls though - I love that brown skin with long straight black hair thing they have going.

Black women seem to love me for some reason. I think it's because I have so little black culture in me (hate rap/hip-hip, can't dance, etc.) that I'm seen as somewhat of a rarity or challenge.
 

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PDubb75 said:
I am a white guy, and generally prefer white women. If I had to create my ideal woman, she would be brunette with dark skin.

With that being said, I have a crazy crush on Lauren London, and have for a while. When I'm out, I find myself hitting on black chicks pretty regularly. I got this one girl I've known since freshman year of college that I'm starting to test some new DJ skills on, as well. Generally, I don't think black women are as attractive, but when you find a good one.... oh my god...
Just googled.. mother of ****ing god yes. this.\

halley berry is a clone of my mom, i never could get into that, though she is pretty.
 

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I've dated just about every race. At this point in the game it boils down to if I think she's hot and how she treats me. That being said, redheads do tend to get my motor running a little bit more than most.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Warrior74 said:
I've dated just about every race. At this point in the game it boils down to if I think she's hot and how she treats me. That being said, redheads do tend to get my motor running a little bit more than most.
Warrior74, I feel you brother. I don't really mind any races, but I'm also a whiteboy and I'll say that girls opposite of me (i.e. dark) have always tickled my fancy.


So I vote poll choice #2.

Also,

backbreaker said:
Just googled.. mother of ****ing god yes. this.\

halley berry is a clone of my mom, i never could get into that, though she is pretty.
There was no need to Google.....her picture was in the OP..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PDubb75

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some comedian told a joke one day, white people are pale, when they blush they are red, when they get hurt they turn purple, when they die they turn yellowish, yet black people are the colored's ones lol
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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PrettyBoyAJ loves the light skinned colored girls. Ain't nothing like a yellow model.
 

SamTheHobit

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im a white guy and white and asian girls are the only females im interested in.

supose its the way I have been raised.

but eveyone to their own.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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powpow

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Black girls in general just have a little bit too much ass for powpow.

I thought this thread was about real chocolate, in which case Im on that 80% cacao joint.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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