Chivalry moves/techniques when going out with a girl?

[Happy_Camper]

Hi everyone, i was wondering what kind of chivalry moves should i do when going out with a girl. I havent dated much all these years, throughout highschool i didnt get one single gf and basically im a newb to all this especially handling women.

Besides the hold/open doors, carry something heavy are common ones, what are the more subtle ones that exist such as walking on the outside of the sidewalk (next to the road) when walking with her.

Thanks a lot guys, tmrw is my birthday and im hoping for a new change this year starting off with these things. =)

 

[WC2]

I wouldn't go too far out of my way to do things for women you don't know. I've seen guys hold open doors for 30 seconds waiting for a girl. Of course, she feels awkward and starts walking briskly so she doesn't look rude.

Don't get me wrong, I like to be overly nice at times. But usually when I already have rapport with a girl. Remember, theres a big difference in between being a nice guy and a good guy.

 

[Kev07]

let her go up stairs first, go down stairs first, so if she happens to fall you can catch her.

go in elevators first, and out elevators first.

read that in a gentleman's handbook somewhere

 

[Happy_Camper]

let her go up stairs first, go down stairs first, so if she happens to fall you can catch her.

go in elevators first, and out elevators first.

read that in a gentleman's handbook somewhere

those are the ones im talking about, subtle stuff like that. Anymore? Where did u find that handbook? thanks!

 

[ChapStick]

When walking on the side of the road with her.. walk on the side nearer to the road.. Women have noticed that and have told me I'm such a gentleman cuz they noticed lol

 

[Happy_Camper]

When walking on the side of the road with her.. walk on the side nearer to the road.. Women have noticed that and have told me I'm such a gentleman cuz they noticed lol

yeah heard that one before too, girls notice the slightest things lol

 

[(JJ)]

open the car door for her and then say "you know what? let me buckle your seatbelt too " lol used that a few times

 

[Happy_Camper]

open the car door for her and then say "you know what? let me buckle your seatbelt too " lol used that a few times

woah u kidding lol

 

[The Inside Man]

If you're at a dinner table at a restaurant before her, stand up when she gets there to greet her. Maybe pull out her chair. But yeah as one poster said, HUGE difference b/t being a nice guy(doormat) and a good guy(does the right thing but respects himself, will not be walked on)

 

[reset]

Some chick was going up the stairs today and a dude stepped aside so she could go ahead. She said "chivalry isn't dead" and he said "no it just got beat up", but he kept going on and on about it. He was uncomfortable with her favorable response.

 

[Happy_Camper]

If you're at a dinner table at a restaurant before her, stand up when she gets there to greet her. Maybe pull out her chair. But yeah as one poster said, HUGE difference b/t being a nice guy(doormat) and a good guy(does the right thing but respects himself, will not be walked on)

ooh thats some good stuff! these are the ones that im talking about! Not being a kiss-ass but gentlemen at the same time!