"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chinese dating etiquette (funny chart)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Real Talk said:
Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.

Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one:p
That's not chivalry. It's ball-chopping toe-curling madness: for example the chart says taking a woman back to your place for sex after dinner is "inappropriate and petty" but going to hers is "much better than a ONS". Looks like someone doesn't enjoy packing and doesn't mind letting the world know about it :D.
 

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Real Talk said:
Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.

Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one:p
Chivalry never existed outside of Anglo countries!!! Travel and you will see what I mean. Italians, Russians, Ukraines, etc. never hold the door open for a random broad! Hell no! They slam it on them. Being a wimpish American male I have gotten so many astonished looks from females for simply holding a door open for them. What is funnier is when a guy finally gets a gf. Most of the time she is forced to run after him. When he is done drinking his little coffee he gets up and just leaves. She then puts his chair in and runs after him.
 
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