"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chinese dating etiquette (funny chart)

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Real Talk said:
Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.

Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one:p
That's not chivalry. It's ball-chopping toe-curling madness: for example the chart says taking a woman back to your place for sex after dinner is "inappropriate and petty" but going to hers is "much better than a ONS". Looks like someone doesn't enjoy packing and doesn't mind letting the world know about it :D.
 

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Real Talk said:
Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.

Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one:p
Chivalry never existed outside of Anglo countries!!! Travel and you will see what I mean. Italians, Russians, Ukraines, etc. never hold the door open for a random broad! Hell no! They slam it on them. Being a wimpish American male I have gotten so many astonished looks from females for simply holding a door open for them. What is funnier is when a guy finally gets a gf. Most of the time she is forced to run after him. When he is done drinking his little coffee he gets up and just leaves. She then puts his chair in and runs after him.
 
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