"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Chinese dating etiquette (funny chart)
- Thread starter blackomen
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.blackomen said:
Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one
That's not chivalry. It's ball-chopping toe-curling madness: for example the chart says taking a woman back to your place for sex after dinner is "inappropriate and petty" but going to hers is "much better than a ONS". Looks like someone doesn't enjoy packing and doesn't mind letting the world know about itReal Talk said:Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.
Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one
.Chivalry never existed outside of Anglo countries!!! Travel and you will see what I mean. Italians, Russians, Ukraines, etc. never hold the door open for a random broad! Hell no! They slam it on them. Being a wimpish American male I have gotten so many astonished looks from females for simply holding a door open for them. What is funnier is when a guy finally gets a gf. Most of the time she is forced to run after him. When he is done drinking his little coffee he gets up and just leaves. She then puts his chair in and runs after him.Real Talk said:Speaking from experience chivalry isn't so dead in other parts of the world. Interesting chart though, dont know how serious it is.
Sadly, the truth is that a lot of american girls see being treated like this as a sign of weakness, hence the difficulty of the "game" in the states and the creation of sites such as this one